I'm 38 and was married Oct. '07. We started trying to conceive right away and haven't had any luck yet. My husband has a low sperm count, motility, and very low morphology. After one IUI, we decided to jump right into IVF because of our age and situation. I found out that my bmi was too high to do ivf. So, this summer/fall, I lost 28 lbs. and now qualify to start the pre-screening process! We've started ivf and our tentative egg retrieval date is Dec. 2nd with a hopeful transfer date of Dec. 7th! We hope God blesses us this first try!