FertilityTies posts tagged with worried

Please help...why is my cycle changing?

Mon, 03 Nov 2008 14:47:07 -0600

Does anyone know what could be causing changes in my cycles? Specifically, I used to bleed about 3 days with spotting for a few days after, but for the past couple months I spot for 1 day, bleed and spot for maybe 2 more and that's it. Also, my cycle has been 28 days for years, but now it varies from 29 to 33 days, doctors say the length is normal but why the difference? I ovulate day 14 or 15 every month.

Maele

My son is too big?!!! confused?

Fri, 26 Sep 2008 23:23:54 -0500

ok...my son will be 34 months 0ct.2..which makes him 2yrs and 10 months old.

he weighs 44 lbs and is 40.5 inches tall...and hes not even 3 yet.

he is off the charts in both height and weight.

i told his pediatrician and he told me he is just a big guy..and will be when he grows up...kinda like a football player.

but im concerned because he looks like hes 5 especially next to all the kids his age. ppl dont beleive me when i tell them his age.

mandi05

To Dr. or friends, Bleeding ... What could be wrong?!?!?!

Thu, 25 Sep 2008 08:24:32 -0500

Last cycle AF came exactly 14DPO at cd31. Noemally cycles are 28days but clomid makes me a little late.

Ok so im currently on cd 11. no meds this month. So hopefully i'll have a normal cycle. Started spotting on the 13th but it stopped then AF came for a few hours on the 14th then stopped. On the 15th it came in full force. heavy bleeding stopped on cd4 (9/18). I had spotting on cd5 & cd6. AF was completely gone by cd7. Now Ive spotted from cd8 thru today. All these days i've had EWCM. Yesterday I woke up with bad cramps like if I had my period. Later in the day I had this heavy feeling in my lower abdomen. I woke up this morning and had blood on underwear as if AF was going to start again but no cramps just the heavy feeling. I did an OPK but it was negative, so i know im not ovulating anytime soon.

Has this happen to anyone before?

My doctor is out of town and I dont see her again til the 20th of October.

Is something wrong? Should I call another doctor?

Yesterday I feel the same way as the day I had my m/c but I know im not pregnant. What can it be?

Rubi Bryan

need help a few questions about ouvlation

Thu, 28 Aug 2008 06:28:12 -0500

i havent had a period from april i've went to thedoctors loads of times and am not pregnant as she give me a blood test to check that she run other test and said it looks like ive a mild case of pcos me and my partner have been ttc from april aswell i just have no clue when am ouvlating shes said i could tell by c-mucus which am lose in that all together my periods have always been on time so its weird for my periods just to stop am not stressed i havent gained weigh am really bloated cause i havent had a periods in 4-5 months

jennifer

Worried?

Mon, 25 Aug 2008 10:55:37 -0500

I know I shouldnt worry but I just cant help it. I have had 2 m/c's one was a natural m/c and one was a blighted ovum. Both ended within the 6th week. I am now 7 weeks and 6 days. I saw a healthy heartbeat at 7 weeks. I am so worried about having a missed m/c. I was woundering what are the odds I would have one? Are there any symptoms of a missed m/c? I know I shouldnt worry about things like this but I cant help it after having 2 m/c's.

Nicki

just pregnant and worried

Sun, 03 Aug 2008 08:02:25 -0500

I just found out yesterday i am pregnant - with 3 +++ hpt's. I have already had my blood checked and my betas came back at 270. I am worried because I had a m/c last time at 9 weeks. I have little symptoms and my temps have dropped. Does this mean I am going to have a m/c?

gibber

TTCing w/recurrent miscarriage due to chromosome 9 inversion & other probs!!

Mon, 14 Jul 2008 11:24:54 -0500

Well my beta level was 15,876.8 hcg 7/9/08 & my ultrasound mesaured the baby @ 5w 6d... so my due date is now 3/5/09. Also I got some bad news from my RE on 7/9/08...he said that after testing & research...he's pretty sure the main cause of my recurrent miscarriages is from my chromosome 9 inversion (which is rare...& I knew about the inversion & @1 point we thought we might need IVF cuz of what a nurse had told us & then my RE had made us thought that it wasn't gonna require

IVF...even more rare is the fact both my husband & I have it...which us both having it...instead of only 1 of us having it is a good thing believe it or not!)& that since we both have it it's better than only 1 of us having it because their being more possibilities for the chromosomes to match up right...he told me the only reason my daughter was born(miracle!!)is because I just happened to drop an egg w/a set of chromosomes w/o the inversion..so it matched up....which is the only way she was able to surive cuz I needed to have 2 sets of chromosomes w/o inversion...& if I had dropped the chromosome 9 inversion it would have matched up wrong...& end in m/c. Well since my husband & I both have it the chances are better for it to match up(like a puzzle)...we either have to both give a set w/o inversion or both give a set w/inversion(if we did that though the child when it grew up would have infertility probs due to inversion), but if we both gave diff sets...1 w/o inversion & 1 w/inversion...it would mismatch...& I'll m/c again(or I think if it survived I might have a baby w/a lot of birth defects...according to 1 website...here's the link to the table that shows the type of defects:

:http://www.ijhg.com/viewimage.asp?img=IndianJHumGenet_2006_12_3_129_29856_4.jpg if it has that prob...it might have physical &/(or)mental probs,...but my RE had advised me that those type of probs depends on the serverity of the inversion & that are's weren't severe...but to me this inversion is rare...so since little is known...there are conflicting ideas...since there have been limted clinical studies).

The RE said that there's a test he could do @ 12weeks to find out if it's mismatched or not,...but by 12 weeks if the baby has that prob...I'll m/c b4 12weeks...& if I make it to 12weeks for testing...then I'm outta the clear & it doesn't have that problem. Also he suggested some meds to take,....but there was no guarantee it would work or help prevent m/c & have me carry full-term, but still I had to take time to take these meds into consideration b4 I ordered them & self-pay for it. Well today's 7/14/08 & I decided to order the meds...so tomorrow on 7/15/08 I have an appt w/my RE for prob another u/s(probably)& blood work(of course),& I'm gonna ask my RE how to take the meds when & how often. The new meds I was prescribed are: Lovenox 30MG (a blood thinner injection for my blood cloting problem..there's a side effect..of not being able to stop bleeding if I get injured though which really scares my husband & I!!!),Chorionic Gonado (HCG

multi-dose injection to help keep my HCG levels up...I assume??)...anywayz I'll have more info on 7/15/08 @ my appt.

All of this has been really hard on me...the 3 m/c's...the high risk pregnancy...the feeling of helplessness...cuz the RE can't do much for me till I get outta 1st trimester!!! It's so depressing to not know if ur baby will live or die...& the RE can't do anything about it really..since it's a chromosomal abnormalty...& I really wish there was more they could do for my baby & more research on it...& more info known!! Also I think even if I make it to 12weeks I still want the test...cuz I wanna know what I'm up against...where the baby has problems..or not we will love it uncondtionaly...I just want to be prepared if there's a problem...so I'm not suprised! Everyone pray for me!!!

Recurrent_MC_chick(is preg w/1surviving twin!!)

What I am learning

Thu, 29 May 2008 11:17:24 -0500

So now that everyone knows our situation, I have found this site and met some great women on here, and dh and I started ttc again. I sadley have learned more about my condition with the half tube crap by this site then my own Dr. My Dr never told me that my right tube would be the only one that world work, and with both ovaries still fine that also lowers my chance of concieving due to the fact that if I o on the left and not the right side I will not become pg.=( I know by the way that I am feeling that it is the left side that is oing and not the right. Every month that is how it feels.=( This is so upsetting to have to work so hard for something and know that it may not happen for a while, if at all,or that I just will get so burned out for trying thatI will just want to give up. I do not wish troubles with having a baby to anyone that truely wants this or deserves this, but is is soo freakin hard when I see others that I know have it happen for them when A. they were not trying, B. Can't take care of it properly, C. have it for attention, and not mention other things. Sorry for seeming so down, but it is so hard to not cry and always smile when I am upset about this. I wish my Dr. would have told me more and figured something out for me so that we could have a better chance.Are there any other things that I can maybe bring up to my Dr for us to try? I need to bring it out and onto the table with him otherwise I don't see things moving for us. I guess all that I can do for now is wait. Thanks for letting me vent.......=(

Chas

Worried about TTC!

Fri, 11 Jan 2008 22:39:17 -0600

I said this year I wouldnt worry Dr. Q and ttc more calmly. I lost my right tube to an ectopic pg 7 months ago possibly due to chlamydia when younger. This is my 4 cycle trying and nothing. My hsg test two weeks ago determined my left tube IS open which is good but I keep reading how this doesnt meant its functional. What do you think? I know its hard to say without examining me but can you give me your real and honest opinion on my case? I need help relaxing. What should I do to get pregnant?

1stimemami

Dr Q - Hi I'm new to this forum but not to TTC! Can You Help Me?

Tue, 18 Dec 2007 02:48:51 -0600

Hi Dr Q & Everyone,

My Husband and I tried for 14 long months for our first baby, and I finally fell pregnant at the very end of August (this year), sadly this turned out to be ectopic and I had surgery in October which also resulted in the loss of my whole, left fallopian tube. It was heart breaking. I am now on Cycle Day 4 of my second cycle and second full period since surgery. I have always had regular 28 day cycles, and it has gone back to 28 days, of which I am so grateful and I know how lucky I am, believe me!! I got a positive ovulation test on CD 13 last month so I'm quite regular, it seems...But I as so worried that it is going to take another 14 months or longer to conceive, and with our chances now reduced to half with the loss of my left tube, I am so scared it will take much longer, or will not happen atall!!! We want to be parents so, so, much. Do you think it could take so long or is there a chance it won't happen atall? Also, I know my chances are higher now to have another ectopic, I wondered how likely this could be? If that happened I would be devasted as I only have the one tube left!!! And even when/if I do fall pregnant again, I will go straight to my pregnancy support centre to be scanned at 6 weeks to make sure bubs is in the right place, which is good but if it looks okay then, I know I will still worry after that, about having a miscarriage. I would really appreciate any and all advice you or any of the other ladies have...

Many thanks in advance,

Sarah xxxxxxxxx

MrsSarahP