FertilityTies posts tagged with people

good feeling

Fri, 14 Nov 2008 13:06:09 -0600

I FEELING SO GOOD ON THIS SITE TODAY MAYBE BECOUSE I HERE SOME GOOD FEEDBACK I CAN'T GET ALL THE GIRLS TO HELP ME AND TALK BUT THE GIRLS THAT TOOK TIME OUT THANKS TTC

shariese herrig

I am very bothered and need to say something!!!

Fri, 31 Oct 2008 12:15:31 -0500

I came on this site 2 months after my EP rupture and was so proud of myself for looking towards getting support and maybe some answers as to why this happend to me and to others aswell. I have met some of the most wounderful ladies on here and you have helped me in more ways that I can say. The fact that you can meet a total stranger and yet the can change your life by simply showing that they care touches my heart!

I am very bothered tho by what has gone on lately. People have been becomming so mean on here and saying the nastiest things to others. When I talked to Tina and read her last comment on her page I started crying.. She too just like some of us has gone through the highest of highs to her lowest of lows when loosing her baby! The fact that someone or some people could have a nerve to say they think some girls on here are making this up is UNCALLED FOR!!! I see how many of the girls I have talked with on several occations now just kind of keep to themselves or want to leave because of the drama that has gone on and that is sad. We are all here for the support of each other and that should not be ruined by the imaturaty that some on here like to play. This is not myspace if people want to act like it is then go there and stop wasting the space on here for those who benifit from it. I am not trying to be mean in any way at all, but I am very offended that those words could even be used. I have too gone through two losses and have had a very difficut time ttc and I would never wish that heartach on anyone. To the person or people that think it is ok to act this way: Just remember that carma is a B*#@H and just keep in mind that when you need to reach out to someone and nobody wants to be there for you step back and think of the crul actions you may have put out there towards others.

I just want to say sorry to Tina and ANY othe woman on here that has been shaimed. Very sorry for your losses and heartbreacks. I am a person that will be here for any of you and I know that there are lots of true ladies on here too.

If you are unhappy with someones actions or how they have treated you step up and do something. Maybe that person needs to be reported to V so she can take care of it. The Dr's here have done something amazing with creating this site. Take it as a great gift and not ruin it for the rest of us who need it please.

Thank you for listening.

(((BABY DUST&&&STICKY GLUE)))

Chas

Any cute ideas to tell co-workers I am pregnant????

Sat, 25 Oct 2008 21:33:51 -0500

Hello,

I am looking for cute ideas to tell my co-workers I am pregnant. I am a teacher and will be telling the staff right before we go on Thanksgiving break :) Any ideas????

MrsM

The NICE things people SAY or do

Mon, 21 Jul 2008 19:56:47 -0500

Well I really enjoyed the post about the stupid things people say and do so I thought I would post the opposite~ the nice things people have said or done. I know I get a lot of support on here because we all know what eachother are going through. A lot of my friends don't understand because they have never been through anything like this.

My best friend however, has been awesome through my ttc journey. I have been having a rough time lately. I just had surgery Tuesday(laporoscopy, hysteroscopy, d&c, and dye study). During the surgery they found that both my tubes are blocked. They attempted to remove the endometriosis in my tubes and I have another dye study to determine if it was successful in a month. My dr. has warned me that it is a highly unsuccesful surgery though. If it did not work we will be down to IVF or adoption as our two options. My best friend lives in Guam and set her alarm (due to the time difference) to call me to check how my surgery went. I was devestated to say the least and told her the news. I told her I was ok. (Like I tell everyone). She responded "I know you are not ok and that's ok. You don't need to be ok. You have every right to be devestated and to fall apart for a little while. When you are ready we will pick up the pieces and figure out what to do next" That was the nicest thing anyone has ever said to me. She knows me better than anyone and it is so nice to have a friend I don't have to put on a happy face for. Anyone else have stories of people who have said really nice things to you during your ttc journey?

MrsM

The things people Say!!!

Mon, 21 Jul 2008 10:00:23 -0500

So I decided to start a discussion on the stupid things people say when to those TTC. This is a space where you can feel free to vent and let it all out. This is a safe place for venters so please no ridicule on the venting! :)

Some of the things I hate the most:

"stop trying so hard, then you'll get pregnant"

"fertility drugs?! Your going to end up with ten babies!" (best response "so?")

"Go in for adoption... you'll get pregnant right away!" (Seriously, how does that make any sense?)

There are plenty more, but I want to hear all of yours!

Rachel W.

girls I'm dying!

Tue, 23 Oct 2007 18:08:43 -0500

Omg my new neighbor is pregnant big fat belly to I just don't need this right now I just stared at her like why? why my building? why next to me? I can't handle this now in a couple of weeks I will hear her baby crying s---.

Wannabeybey

Telling people....

Wed, 03 Oct 2007 21:51:16 -0500

Hi Girls. I was just wondering if any of you had told your family members or friends that you are trying to conceive and about what you are going through right now. Some people try and conceive and hope that it will be a surprise while others tell everyone that they are trying. I was just wondering how you all went about this and the reasons why.

Liane