FertilityTies posts tagged with miscarriage

getting pregnant right after MC,is it possible??

Tue, 14 Oct 2008 22:51:52 -0500

After years of trying,i finally got a BFP but sadly lost it at 6 weeks.I had a Mc on 12 september.and i bled for 5 days n passed out all the tissues.Then last week i had a gummy CM,and i had on n off cramps since past few days.Very similar to the cramps i had when i ovulated before my last pregnancy!!N just like e last time,I cry whenever i watch sad movies.

I was just thinking,perhaps i'm preggo!!

Is it possible??

If i count the day i miscarried,the first day of my menses then today wud be CD 34.

Please input ur suggestion!!

Thxx

yuki

hi

Mon, 13 Oct 2008 07:09:44 -0500

hi, im wondering whether anyone can help me. I recently miscarried after 8 weeks, blighted ovium, at the time devastating after it took nearly 12 months to conceive.

This month I really wanted to conceive, I bought opk kits and got a positive sign on day 12, 13, 14.

I had intercourse on day 11, 12, 13 is that ok?

Do you think I could be pregnant. I have a normal 28 day cycle and ovulate normally, however took 50mg clomid to help the egg being released.

Sally

newstarter

M/C #3

Sun, 12 Oct 2008 14:48:36 -0500

Hi Dr. Q,

I just recently had my 3rd M/C.I an't believe it! Can you please tell me how soon after a M/C can genetic testing be done for my hubby and I? Also the last time I took clomid 100mg Days 3-7 I was extremely crampy and sore. Do you think the dose was to much? should I try 50mg instead? I will be seeing an Endocrinologist for any immune disorders. Do you know how long should I wait to do the blood test for the Endo. Is it 1 or 2 cycles?

clomid x2

I'm so bummed....

Fri, 10 Oct 2008 19:00:59 -0500

This week was the week I was supposed to find out the sex of my baby... I had so much anticipation for this week in October and now - theres nothing. Its kind of sureal... I don't like all these little reminders of what could have or would have been. Please keep me in your thoughts... I need some positive energy.

MaggieMS

Its over - I miscarried today

Fri, 10 Oct 2008 18:22:23 -0500

After a week of wondering if it was an ectopic, or a normal pregnancy with really low hcg numbers, I finally started miscarrying yesterday. I did not even pass much tissue, just lots of bleeding. They could see nothing in the ultrasound today. My hcg dropped all the way to 49. I would have completed six weeks today. So, does this mean that while fertilization happened, the embryo absolutely did not grow at all? Why? I feel so let down by my body.

Miscarriage rate with gonadotropins (injectables)

Fri, 10 Oct 2008 13:20:17 -0500

I read that the m/c rate with gonadotropins can be up to 35%! Why is this??? Thanks!

babyquestions

Can you get pregnant and carry to term with Hashimoto's thyroid disease?

Fri, 10 Oct 2008 09:58:56 -0500

I have been ttc for two years and have had two miscarriages.. one blighted ovum and one chemical pregnancy.

My tsh is around 2 so it's ok but my antithyroid antibody count is off the chart. I see a reproductive endocrinologist who is not concerned about the antibodies (he said that's just proof it is hashimoto's but won't effect fertility) but every thing i read says different.

have you or do you know any one who has hashimoto's and had a successful pregnancy?

SallySmith

Our baby's gone...

Wed, 08 Oct 2008 20:45:12 -0500

Went in today due to the clot earlier and brown smears turning red...no baby or sac to be seen...they checked HCG and

won't have the results til tomorrow and hoping they aren't high...or they'll have to check for an ectopic pregnancy..

I hope with these cramps and this blood,

I'll take care of it all on my own.

:(

Sad. I'll never believe anyone again, when they say "brown blood's ok and normal in early pregnancy" !!!!

Just wanted to update to anyone interested.

~Dee

Dee67

What did you do with your US pics after your miscarriage?

Tue, 07 Oct 2008 12:45:01 -0500

I only had 2 but was obv expecting more so DH & I had started a photo album. Now I find that I cam not able to just toss the pics but want to be able to use the album again when we finally do have our baby-it's cute & not gender specific & will hold quite a lot of pics.

I do have a box that I save Bday & Christmas cards in & I considered putting them in there but that just does not feel right either.

Anybody have any suggestoins or can share your experience for inspiration? My eyes are continually drawn to the photo album & I feel like this is something that I have been putting off & something that I need to take care of for some closure but I want it to be special or meaningful or something, ya know?

Wendy Lou

my frustrating journey

Tue, 07 Oct 2008 08:29:48 -0500

My husband and I have two kids. When we got married we decided that since we both come from big families we want to have a big family ourselves. With both of my kids I got pregnant within a month of trying. Then we wanted another one and this has been the roller coaster of my life. We started trying a year ago. My two best friends started the same month and both got pregnant within a month (a week apart) a month later my sister-in-law called me crying because she found out she was pregnant and wasnt sure that she wanted a baby just yet. (She changed her mind within three months)About 5 weeks after she got pregnant I had a positive pregnancy test. My husband and I usually don't tell anyone for three months but I was so excited I told all of my friends. A week later my friend and I were crossing the road with her daughter who decided to lift her legs up and swing. I almost went down with her. 5 seconds later the cramps began and the next day I started bleeding. I cried all the way to the doctor - who wasnt there and his nurse took a blood test. I kept trying to convince everyone that it would be okay and that i was still pregnant (myself too) The next day when I went to the doc and walked into the room without looking at my chart - except the blood test - and said "congrats your preganant" then I reminded him of the bleeding and he apologized and told me that I had lost the baby. So now its been a over a year since then - my sister in law and best friends have all had their babies. I went to see a fertility doctor who put me on chlomid and something else for discharge coming out of my right breast. I just finished my first cycle and my period is due any day. I took a pregnancy test but it came out negative. My doctor could not find anything wrong other then my ovaries being a little small. So here is wishing. This website seems amazing and I love hearing the women find out they are pregnant after waiting so long. So here is to good luck and good news for all this month!

michal kraut

I lost this baby

Mon, 06 Oct 2008 17:43:57 -0500

I just got back from the Dr. and he saw a tiny sack (At first he couldn't even find my uturus!!!). He said its no where near where it should be. He is sending me tomorrow for a "mega" ultrasound and they will know more than. He is concerned that there could be on in my tubes as well. He also did another HCG test. After my u/s tomorrow we are going to sit down and talk about my options and they will probably be to have a D&C sometime this week.

I am so so so sad - but at the same time I am glad that this nightmare is coming to an end. It has been 6 weeks of torture.

I think he is going to send us to Mayo clinic in rochester next to talk to an RE about recurrent miscarriages. I hope they will be able to determine why I can't carry a baby:(

Holly-ibelieve134

Ultrasound

Sun, 05 Oct 2008 00:31:56 -0500

Hello,

I just have one question. Do you think that internal ultrasound at early pregnancy cause miscarriage? Bec. 3 days after I had the ultrasound the baby's heart stopped beating. Some people told me that it does. The Dr. said is about 1 %.

Saarah

I'm very Sad,

Sun, 05 Oct 2008 00:27:02 -0500

Hello everyone,

After a 1 1/2 years of trying to conceive I finally got pregnant 3 months ago. Just four days ago I found out that the baby's heart stopped beating around 9 1/2 weeks. I"m so hurt I just feel like crying all the time. I can't get over it. I feel so empty. I really don't know what to do. Does anyone have any advise for me. People just tell me you will get another baby but they don't understand the pain I" m going through. Even if I end up having 10 kids I will still be hurt. I can't stop thinking about my baby.

I would greatly appreciate it if any one can give me a good advice.

Thanks,

Saarah

Saarah

15weeks 3days and it's gone.

Sat, 04 Oct 2008 21:29:07 -0500

I was wondering if anyone has any insight to what causes a death at 15 weeks?

Ellen

Dr Q If I had a chemical?

Fri, 03 Oct 2008 21:08:37 -0500

Dr Q, if I had a chemical pregnancy recently(just started bleeding yesterday)& had a d&c for a m/c on 8/25 @ 8weeks(size of fetus was approximatly 8weeks@ what should've been 11weeks 5days from missed misacrriage)....what are my chances of being able to get pregnant this month or next? Should I be able to ttc again soon? Please tell me if I should bother trying to ttc this month or next. Thank you!!!

Recurrent_MC_chick

HCG Back to 0

Fri, 03 Oct 2008 17:16:20 -0500

I never thought I would be so excited to see a pregnancy test say NOT PREGNANT... but I took one today and my levels are finally back to 0 after my miscarriage 9.13 - meaning I will soon be able to try again.

I am hoping I ovulate within the next couple weeks. We aren't going to count anything, etc... just BD like normal. If it happens it happens... if not then next month I will use OPK's once I get an AF to count from. I can't believe I am back at the beginning again... I didn't think I'd be here for a long time, but life had other plans.

MaggieMS

Thank You www.tinypurpose.com (Everyone Must Read This!)

Thu, 02 Oct 2008 16:14:53 -0500

I would like to share with all of you my experience. I recently had a miscarriage and while in the hospital, a woman came to visit me. At the time, she asked me if I wanted her to take pictures of my baby. I really didn't but I let her anyway. I wanted all of this to be over as soon as possible. She explained who she was and told me that she was from a group of women who help other women deal with pregnancy/infant demise. I recently received my pictures and was able to look at them since I am finally ready. Boy, am I happy this group was hear to think when I couldn't. She made a mold of my babies, took tons of pics, all of them even came in black and white and a brownish color. I received a keepsake box, kleenex, teddy bear, the ring that was around their wrist, a baby blanket, free film developing and a coupon for a free bracelet with their name on it. My point to you is that having a miscarriage is a horrible thing to have happen. I just hope that your area offers as much support as mine.

TTC after Miscarriage

Waiting & hopeful for our June 2009 baby?!?!?

Thu, 02 Oct 2008 00:01:10 -0500

I'll be 11 dpo tomorrow and I have to admit...I took a preg. test & it was negative. I know this could be a result of taking this test to soon, was the wait is killing me. After us using the ovulation testing...we are hoping we got this right. I'm showing signs like I did back in March when I was pregnant. Not sure why but even at 6 weeks, I was already looking into maternity clothes and had a belly...my girlfriend next door told me, "oh, you're one of those that shows" *giggles* We have been trying since our loss in April and failed each time, only using calendars, charts, etc. but I broke down and purchased an ovulation test and I'm pretty sure we did this right. But now the wait & wondering again, is this preg. symptoms or period symptons, I have a bump, that's not going away, very mild cramping or an uncomfortable feeling on 1 side. Mild nausea, moody, tired, and last night we noticed my BB's with blue veins, made jokes about a road map, cause that's how they look. No tonight I'm noticing some discomfort with BB's. For some reason I have this "YES I'm PG Feeling" Does anyone else know & understand what I'm feeling and going through...and is any else close to me in timing...maybe we can go through this together!!

MommyJ

Miscarriage and hypothyroid

Wed, 01 Oct 2008 23:52:43 -0500

Dr.,

I am 38 yrs old w/3 wonderful children. Hubby and I are TTC #4 and in Jan and April of this year suffered 2 miscarriages. In May I was diagnosed with hypothyroid. Do you think this may have contributed to my miscarriages? My ob says no, gave me Clomid 50mg in case I am not ovulating due to thyroid. Thank you for your help!

tracyg

Miscarriage and hypothyroid

Wed, 01 Oct 2008 23:50:08 -0500

tracyg