http://fertilityties.com/post/tags/friends+ttc Mon, 21 Jul 2008 19:56:47 -0500 http://www.fertilityties.com/images/fertilityties_ico.png http://fertilityties.com/post/tags/friends+ttc en-us friends ttc <div>Well I really enjoyed the post about the stupid things people say and do so I thought I would post the opposite~ the nice things people have said or done. I know I get a lot of support on here because we all know what eachother are going through. A lot of my friends don't understand because they have never been through anything like this. <br/><br/>My best friend however, has been awesome through my ttc journey. I have been having a rough time lately. I just had surgery Tuesday(laporoscopy, hysteroscopy, d&c, and dye study). During the surgery they found that both my tubes are blocked. They attempted to remove the endometriosis in my tubes and I have another dye study to determine if it was successful in a month. My dr. has warned me that it is a highly unsuccesful surgery though. If it did not work we will be down to IVF or adoption as our two options. My best friend lives in Guam and set her alarm (due to the time difference) to call me to check how my surgery went. I was devestated to say the least and told her the news. I told her I was ok. (Like I tell everyone). She responded "I know you are not ok and that's ok. You don't need to be ok. You have every right to be devestated and to fall apart for a little while. When you are ready we will pick up the pieces and figure out what to do next" That was the nicest thing anyone has ever said to me. She knows me better than anyone and it is so nice to have a friend I don't have to put on a happy face for. Anyone else have stories of people who have said really nice things to you during your ttc journey?</div> <p><a href="/profile/mrsm" title="MrsM"><img alt="Scan0003" src="/profile/image/3717/thumb/scan0003.jpg?1227759021" /></a><br /> <a href="/profile/mrsm">MrsM</a> </p> Mon, 21 Jul 2008 19:56:47 -0500 ttc journey nice things people say do support tips family friends http://www.fertilityties.com/post/show/the-nice-things-people-say-or-do http://www.fertilityties.com/post/show/the-nice-things-people-say-or-do <div>Hi Girls<br/><br/>I just got home from TAFE (adult education school/uni) and on my way home I was thinking of how tough its been over the last few wks and months and was starting to get a little teary. But all off a sudden on my ipod came a song that made be feel so hopeful and I wanted to share the words of it with you.<br/><br/>I've been thru countless health issues recently with ttc as well as having 2 miscariages. So like you all I know how hard this journey is. So please read the words of this song. I hope it speaks to all of your hearts the way it spoke to mine<br/><br/>The song is called 'BE STRONG' its by an aussie artist called Delta Goodrem. She wrote this song while she was going thru her own battle, cancer.<br/><br/>This is the song.....Are you swimming up stream in oceans of blue? Do you feel like your sinking? Are you sick of the rain after all you've been through? Well I know what your thinking when you cant't take it. Some time soon I know you'll see. <br/><br/>'Cause when your in your darkest hour and all of the light just fades away. When you're like a single flower who's colours have turned to shades of grey. Well hang on and be strong. <br/><br/>We're taking each step one day at a time. You can't lose your spirit. Let live and let live forget and forgive. It's all how you see it and just remember keep it together. Dont you know your never alone.<br/><br/>'Cause when your in your darkest hour and all of the light just fades away. When your like a single flower whose colours have turned to shades of grey. Well hang on and be strong.<br/><br/>No your not defeated and soon you'll be smiling once again. Then you wont have to feel it. Let it go with the wind. Time passes us by and know that your allowed to cry.<br/><br/>'Cause when your in your darkest hour and all of the light just fades away. When your like a single flower whose colour has turned to shades of grey. Well hang on be strong......<br/><br/>Please let me know what you all think. And remember we are in this journey together. <br/><br/>Sending you all LOADS of *******BABY DUST & STICKY SUPER GLUE*******<br/><br/>Hugz Julie</div> <p><a href="/profile/flutterbyejewels" title="flutterbyejewels"><img alt="Summer_holidays_08_143" src="/profile/image/1936/thumb/summer_holidays_08_143.jpg?1230982377" /></a><br /> <a href="/profile/flutterbyejewels">flutterbyejewels</a> </p> Mon, 17 Mar 2008 00:28:54 -0500 ttc sad depressed hope faith friends strong http://www.fertilityties.com/post/show/tough-times http://www.fertilityties.com/post/show/tough-times