FertilityTies posts tagged with bad

15 sleeps to go..and BAD cramps???

Thu, 27 Nov 2008 15:16:58 -0600

Well most of you know I was on bed rest for a week (ust over due to a small amount of leaking) everything is good now, I had my 2nd last doc apt yesterday and everything looks good..I told him I was having some pretty bad (menstral like cramps) he checked me out and nothing has changed all is good) but I was up all night last night with cramps and today they really hurt!! I did not have this with carleigh is it ok?? I feel like at any moent my period is going to come LOL it cant of course but thats how it feels..also I woke up with my shirt SOAKED with milk..not just a little TONES..is that ok???

love ya

Melissacharlton

Possible bad HSG results?? Maybe

Fri, 21 Nov 2008 16:24:38 -0600

I had my HSG today - when I met with our RE the first time they were almost positive that my tubes were NOT blocked since we have only tried to get pregnant twice and succeeded both times. However both pregnancies ended in m/c. They wanted to see if I have a "septum" in my uterus that the baby could be implanting on and therefore not getting nutrients and so therefore dying.

Well I went to the HSG and my left tube was great but the right tube was "strangly blocked". I am so confused. The dr. wasn't sure what it was. Apparently they have to do more testing.

I asked if it was a cancer something that I should be worried about and he was fairly sure that it wasn't because I am young, but he said he needs to do more tests to determine what it is.

My question is this. How can my tube be blocked???!!!?!? I have ewcm every month and we only tried to get pregnant twice and succeeded both times!!! And I have a very regular cycle - I have never missed a period and my period is pretty regular at 28-31 days. What could have caused the blockage and should I be concerned??

I have been crying all day and this is NOT what I was expecting:( I just dont understand.

Holly-ibelieve134

Bad sperm Morphology..i need some support here!

Tue, 18 Nov 2008 19:35:39 -0600

Hi Dr Q. All this time, I have been on here asking about problems that I think are wrong with me, meanwhile my dh's s/a just came back and he said the dr told him that 90% are Abnormal. His count was at 120 million which the dr said was good, but 90% of these are bad. Is there any hope for us?? WOuld IVF even be an option for us?? I am so devasted. I am hoping there is some type of hope for us!! Pls help.

CLM

Bad News

Sat, 08 Nov 2008 17:12:46 -0600

I just wanted to tell everyone that I'll be making a Drs. appointments for hubby and I on Monday to make sure everything is ok and I would Really appreciate your support while Hubby and i go through all this. My appointment will be to see a gyno and his will be to get his s/a done

C&D_TTC_1st_baby

How can you find out if you have HPV?

Mon, 03 Nov 2008 20:08:04 -0600

Dr. Q,

I'm curious, a few years ago I had a bad pap that came back from Planned Parenthood(at the time I had no health insurance). I can't remember, but I think the lady told me that I have HPV. If I do, is that something you find out you have from a bad pap?

My second question is my dh told me that he read in an article that if a woman has HPV and a man performs oral sex on her that he can get throat cancer. Is there any truth to this?

I was due for my annual pap but had to cancel my appt cause darn AF showed up and I can't get in now until Dec.

Thanks!

Sar22222

How do you deal with DH and TTC?

Thu, 16 Oct 2008 16:52:43 -0500

OK, I know infertility is not easy to deal with, but does anyone just want to scream when your dh acts likes it's just gonna happen when you already know you have medical issues? The most frustrating thing of all is that he wants kids as much as i do, but then acts like i'm overreacting whenever i bring up the subject.

How do you get across the fact that trying naturally for a year is not an option for a 36 year old woman with an fsh of 10, endometriosis, miscarriage, ectopic pg, and 2 failed ivf's?

Maele

Dr. Your opinion please

Wed, 15 Oct 2008 16:04:39 -0500

Just wondering if one is told their eggs aren't too good, "bad" to be exact. :O( Do you think that it is better to do IUI and leave the eggs in if they are fragmented and dark or do you think doing IVF should be ok with eggs that aren't so good? THANKS!!!!!

jenstar

Almost 7 weeks pregnant

Tue, 07 Oct 2008 07:56:08 -0500

I am almost 7 weeks pregnant, And i have had two dreams of me losing my child. Is that right? I am really scared that i am going to loss it since i and still so early. Is there any way of getting this off my mind. I think it is going to drive me nuts!

Sarad23

Good ovulation?

Tue, 16 Sep 2008 14:24:30 -0500

Hi there,

Just a question that im curious about, until recently i always thought that u either ovulated or you didnt. After reading several posts i've realised that ovulations can be classed as a 'bad' or 'good'.

Please enlighten me! I thought that if you ovulated you ovulated ..end of.

After having my 21 progesterone taken last month the figure came back at 37.8

The nurse assured me that i had ovulated but now im wondering was it a good ovulation or bad?!

Thanks for listening.

natasha

Good news and yuck news.....

Tue, 16 Sep 2008 08:51:24 -0500

So good news is that i ovulated EXACTLY when i thought i did and the yuck news is that AF showed 2day so no baby......

I ovulate each month but this month with clomid i had some hopes that we could make it happen, esp after the last IVF cycle and m/c. Well... no such luck. Im alright about it sicne i have known for days that i am not preggo even w/out AF. I have never been wrong as far as if i was preggo or not, i am very sensitive to the HCG, even in very little amounts i can tell its there.

Just a little bummed and gonna call the doc and see if they will give me 100 instead of the 50 this time on clomid. Looking forward to the Oct appt with a new fertility doc for some more ideas.

Thx for hearing me vent! lol!

Rubi - whats up with you, my cycle buddy.... any BFP's? and Lauri too, whats up with your cycle now???

chelsharmony

Bad Dream!!!

Mon, 15 Sep 2008 10:41:00 -0500

I will be 11 weeks preggo tomorrow. I had a really bad dream last night. I dreamed that I started bleeding and all I could say was "I have saw the heartbeat and everything, I cant be loosing this baby". I went to the doc and sure enough I lost the baby. I hate having bad dreams. But I wanted to know what my chances of m/c is after 10 weeks? I am so worried because I had a dream the first time I was preggo about bleeding and thats exactly what happened.

Nicki

B*tch session!

Thu, 11 Sep 2008 12:06:57 -0500

I need some clarity from others since I am in the situation and am having a hard time right now.

As most of you know I have been thru that last year of fertility sh*t. 2 IUI’s, 2IVF’s, 2m/c... whoa, I see a pattern.... maybe next I can have 2 babies! lol.

Anyway, I have decided (with the push of DH) to seek a 2nd opinion on my “crappy egg situation”. I have found out that the OB that delivered my son (who I loved) specializes in infertility as well as being an OB so I made an appt with her to talk. BUT im not much of a “window shopper” and if I see and talk to her that to me means that I am open to what she thinks we should do - wether it be donor eggs or another round of IVF and that scares the heck out of me. I don’t know if I can mentally or physically handle another round of that and another BFP and then yet another m/c. I have used all my “positive” strength over the last year with this and I don’t know that I have it in me anymore. However, I do still yearn for a pregnancy and baby and I know that time is not on my side - I will be 34 in less than a week. I know that some ladies have children way later in life but its just not for me. Pregnancy was hard and newborn was even harder so I don’t want to do it further than 35. So IF we are going to do this I don’t want to wait - I guess I am scared for her to say “yes, your eggs are crap and you need donor eggs” - I am in denial of that actually. I don’t know that I could handle hearing that.

I have also decided to see an P.A. & herbologist - Blair Lewis (I don’t even ask how expensive he is)to help me in life. I would really like to get back to “normal” get off the lexapro and start feeling “real” again. Maybe he could help with fertility. My DH’s aunt went thru 2 IVF’s after cancer treatment and was told she wouldn’t have children. The IVF failed both times and she went to him and got preggo twice with no issue. Am I wishing too hard that it could happen to me? I want to have a wonderful story like that but I just don’t see it happening to ME. I don’t have terrible things happening to me but I also have never been able to say something amazing has happened either. Im kinda one of those people! LOL!

I am scared to go thru the whole year again. As I look back at it, I honestly wasnt living, I was existing and living for “another chance”. Waiting to start meds, waiting to go for the procedure, waiting to ovulate, waiting to test.... a vicious cycle and emotionally wacked cuz of all the meds.

What would you all do or suggest doing? Its so hard to decide. I am looking forward to seeing Blair Lewis tho so that is something to look forward to :)

Thank to everyone for listening to me blab.... about really nothing! LOL!

Much love to you all!

chelsharmony

Abortioin

Wed, 02 Jul 2008 10:48:12 -0500

when i was 5 month pregnant i aborted the baby. after abortion condition seem normal. and after 1 month my stomach aches , had a blood vomiting, my eye sight gone week. i need your assistance what should i do and what should i not.. what if my ovary has burst?

Hira

really bad pain and a very faint bfp ?????

Tue, 24 Jun 2008 19:23:29 -0500

hi ladies and dr q i have been having really bad ovary and lower back pain i have beeen taking clomid 100mg i am on cycle day 26 and had pos opks and also a faint bfp i cant even bd because of the pain and i think i am ovulating but the pain is to bad to do anyhting wat could be the cause of this please help thank you

lesley patterson

Bad Post Coital, Bacteria, leading to IUI and stressing (again)

Sat, 12 Apr 2008 15:25:00 -0500

Ladies and Dr.,

I have been on clomid and responding nicely. This is my 2nd round and I had a post coital. The nurse said that I have some sort of bacterial infection. He said I have too much of the good bacteria and my chances of preg this month are slim to non because the sperm cannot swim. He said my only choice is to take antibiotic and do an IUI next month. Is there really no chance of preg this month? Could this have been a cause of earlier miscarriages? and Is an IUI really necessary after the antibiotic?? Thank you in advance.

Jessica080280

bad taste in mouth

Mon, 31 Mar 2008 10:01:22 -0500

Has anyone experianced a really bad taste in their mouth while pregnant? i am 12 weeks pregnant, and the bad taste comes and goes throughout the day. Whenever I eat anything, regardless of what it is, the bad taste goes away for a short time, but then it comes back. Has anyone else had this? How long did it last? Thanks

babyluck

bad throat

Sat, 12 Jan 2008 20:37:44 -0600

One of my friend had a bad throat and she is 2 wks pregnant... Is it affect the pregnancy or fetus???? What tablet should she take now to recover???

sonya021179

need help!!!!!

Wed, 28 Nov 2007 20:14:15 -0600

I've been on a period for quiet a while now and it's irregular, heavy and just plain uncomfortable, but I was wondering if that could stop me from having kids, what could I do to improve my chances at conceiveing and also i was wondering how can you tell if a guy can not have children?

Critney