Welcome to the site wishing you much BABY DUST!!
Why Me
July 21, 2008
HI!! Im new to this chat line and I have sooo many questions, first i must say one of my co-workers told me about this site until I spoke to her today I thought I was the only womenliving this nightmare!!! I've been with my husban for six years, and us too have been waiting and trying for I our "lil" miracle, Seing all of my friends with their children sometimes makes me question God!!! why me???? I just feel like less of a woman. Im not really sure when i Ovulate I really want to try the clomid, but I don't know much about it. When my husband and I go out and we see couple's with newborns or infants I see the sadness in his eyes. And only God can see how loud I cry inside, how small, sorry I feel for myself. At time I cry so hard I think my chest gonna bust, but reading some of you stories it give me hope, I have fait that the the sun will soon shine!!! so to all the best of luck!!!!
Hi!! hopeN what is an OPKs iIm new to all of these terminologies to be honest with alot of these words that Im reading on this site Im not educated in but Im so very excited to learn as much as I can about my situation,,, Any how to answer your question Im not yet 30. And we have been trying for a while...
Hi Why Me, Heres a link to a post that will help you with all the abbrivations....
http://www.fertilityties.com/post/show/abbreviations
Are your periods (af) regular? If they are not then you probly arent ovulating and would need to see a doctor to help get the regulated. Also you can ask to be checked for things like PCOS (Polycystic Overian Syndrom) & Endo (Endometriosis) These are 2 things that can cause fertility issues in women of all ages. Plus you may want to see if you can get your dh's (darling husbands) sperm checked (sa).
Please know that for any young health couple each month they only have something like a 20% chance of getting preggo.
If you have been ttc (trying to concieve) for longer then a yr then it probly is time to see the doctor about it and he/she will probly test for things like I mentioned above....
Wishing you loads of ****BABY DUST****
http://www.fertilityties.com/post/show/abbreviations
Are your periods (af) regular? If they are not then you probly arent ovulating and would need to see a doctor to help get the regulated. Also you can ask to be checked for things like PCOS (Polycystic Overian Syndrom) & Endo (Endometriosis) These are 2 things that can cause fertility issues in women of all ages. Plus you may want to see if you can get your dh's (darling husbands) sperm checked (sa).
Please know that for any young health couple each month they only have something like a 20% chance of getting preggo.
If you have been ttc (trying to concieve) for longer then a yr then it probly is time to see the doctor about it and he/she will probly test for things like I mentioned above....
Wishing you loads of ****BABY DUST****
Why Me, how long have you been TTC(trying to conceive)? It has been 13 months for me which is way longer than some and way shorter than others on this site, but that doesn't change the way it makes any of us feel. I want you to know that you are not the only one who cries so hard it makes you feel like it is not even you. Sometimes I just want to scream out loud or stay in my house and become a hermit. There are a lot of women here to support you and help you through these things... it has helped me so much since I joined and I am sure it will help you as well. You have found a place where you will belong and be understood. I wish you lots of baby dust and a BFP (big fat positive) very soon!!!
hey hun, it may take awhile to know when you ovulate - its hard to pinpoint if you dont knwo what you are looking for :)
The OPK's can help a lot but not if you arent takin them at the right times. You cant drink for a few hours b4 you take them and the best time to take them is 10am-8pm. Not with FMU (first morning urine). Also, if you dont have a regular cycle then its hard to find the right days to BD (baby dance = sex) i have a longer cycle 31/32 days each month so i ovulate later than a person with a 28 day cycle. I start testing around day 13 and get a + around 15 or 16. Ladies with 28 day cycles start testing at day 9 or 10 cuz they ovulate around day 14. ONce you get the +OPK then you know you will ovulate 24-36 hours later so its time to get it on!!! LOL! You should have sex that night and the next 2 or3 nights to catch that egg, unless your DH (Dear Husband) has sperm issues and then you should talk to the doctor.
Take care, good luck and enjoy the site - its amazing here!!
The OPK's can help a lot but not if you arent takin them at the right times. You cant drink for a few hours b4 you take them and the best time to take them is 10am-8pm. Not with FMU (first morning urine). Also, if you dont have a regular cycle then its hard to find the right days to BD (baby dance = sex) i have a longer cycle 31/32 days each month so i ovulate later than a person with a 28 day cycle. I start testing around day 13 and get a + around 15 or 16. Ladies with 28 day cycles start testing at day 9 or 10 cuz they ovulate around day 14. ONce you get the +OPK then you know you will ovulate 24-36 hours later so its time to get it on!!! LOL! You should have sex that night and the next 2 or3 nights to catch that egg, unless your DH (Dear Husband) has sperm issues and then you should talk to the doctor.
Take care, good luck and enjoy the site - its amazing here!!
July 21, 2008