whats the best position

Jenn031... U should put a pillow under ur butt for about 20 mins after u BD. Not to where ur to high but just enough to elevate ur butt.

Those 2 positions are the best to BD in to conceive in.

missionary and doggy style work for most...and it would help if u lie down for atleast 30 minutes flat on ur back...

thanks guys ! put a pillow under my butt..lol i will have to get another pillow then. does it matter if i do that or just lay flat?

thanks jenn

and what the doggy style position? would you lye on your back then to for 30 mins or in that position?

Jenn031.. It is better to to the pillow thing so u dont have the sperm sitting in a pool of it after u BD. U can lay on ur back but the say to do the pillow thing.

After u do doggie style then put the pillow under ur butt and lay on ur back.

I have also stood on my head once be4 after DH and I bded. LOL! I am willing to do anything to get preggo. I just did that this cycle so we will see if it works.

i hang over the bed afterwards....lol!

stood on your head lol. thats funny. ok i will have to stay lying down for that time and see what happens thanks again katie

jenn

lol!!!! that is hilarious hanging off of the bed . i don't think i'd be able to be down there that longhaha

jenn

puting pillow under your butt also plesesnt to men and good for concive also.

I got pregnant three times in a row doggy style and I didn't hold the position at all, I got up to pee within a few minutes. I also used opk's too to time intercourse right. Good luck and have fun!

wow sar! 3x's without holding the position? thats awesome! i wish i had that luck but i haven't yet and i sat up on my hands and knees each time for 20mins at least.

Ya know what? I also had a few drinks and was totally relaxed too. I had an orgasm each time too, some say that helps, who knows for sure, but I had one so I'd like to think it helped. lol :)

I think a big key to it is to stay relaxed, don't think about conceiving and try to just enjoy eachother. It's hard which is why I had a few drinks to relax. My dh made it fun, we would have date night, go out to eat, see a movie and come home and get all snuggly and then bd. It really took the stress out of it for me.

Also keep in mind that after my first m/c it took me six months to get pregnant again and then after the second m/c it took me a year. So it's not like I'm fertile myrtle, it's just that every time I got pregnant we had happened to bd doggy style and then I was like..hmmmmm...we're on to something here. lol :)

Good luck Jenn!!!

Hey ladies... I think that I will try putting the pillow under my butt while BDing on my back. If I remember right.. I think that is how I conceive my son so I will have to try it this month.

good luck i am going to try the pillow thing as well:) we'll see.

hang over the bed afterwards...lol! which way though? straight up and down on my back or on my tummy???hahaha wouldn't that kill your head???

Jenn031.. U would hang over the bad on ur back. I have done that too.

Also Wed I put the pillow under my butt while we were BDing and left it there after so Im hoping that will help too.

for how long did you hang over the bed like that? didn't it hurt your head????

Jenn... u dont have to hang over it long. After u hang then u should lay with the pillow under ur butt.

so not like 20 mins..lol? geesh could you imagine haha and how is the pillow done do you fold it in half and then place it under your butt or just leave it as normal and put it under there?

No not like 20 mins... just make sure that ur pillow is high enough to get ur hips up. Not like over ur head tho. LOL!

lol! i will try it folded in half first .. thanks katie.

YW Jenn... no problem.. have u ever tired Preseed yet? Some ppl swear by it. I have tried to be4 adn I like it alot but some women dont like it at all.

no katie what is preseed?

Jenn.. Preseed is a sperm friendly lub that is suppose to make the sperm swim faster. Some women say that they have gotten preggo when using it. I remember that I used it in Dec and got preggo but had a chemical.

i dowant to try that fertilty stuff that they sell in the gnc stores but need to talk to the doc first see how they feel about it.