Wanting our baby...

Hi Megan! Welcome :)

You sure did find the BEST place to find support and to meet some amazing women who've definitely been where you and I am one of them. I had two unexplained m/c's and finally the third time we got pregnant our little bean stuck and he was born this past May. He's a real cutie pie :)

If there's anything we can do to help you while ttc...just ask!!

Hi Meghan I hope this IUI Cycle works for you. You both look really cute as a couple. Good luck to you and lots of.

************Baby Dust**********

Hi Megan!! Hubby and I have been married 6 months too!! Weve wanted a baby the entire time weve been married and I dont know why I havent gotten PG...our insurance doesnt cover infertility :( and Im 19 so the doctor doesnt take me TTC seriously either :(

good luck to you!

yeah, that sucks! The only reason my insurance covers it is because I've had multiple miscarriages so it doesn't get coded as infertility. You could at least go to your OB/GYN & have some preliminary blood work done & ask them to code it under something else other than infertility. Usually they can find something like irregular cycle or anovulatory cycle. I am an RN in an OB/GYN clinic & we do this all the time, you just find another diagnosis that works. They may also be willing to give you an Rx for Clomid & you could try that if you're not ovulating. Hopefully that helps!

Just wanted to say Hi. I'm 24, Married a little over a year and TTC #1, I know how it feels when people say, "Oh you're so young, you have all the time in the world." We don't have all the time in the world and that's really hurtful...

Megan we are all here for you. Thank you for the info on the septum uterus stuff. I am thinking of you and will include you in my prayers =)

Jennifer-

Thank you so much for your thoughtful message. I am always here to answer the questions that I can! I am just trying to keep my head up & stay positive. This whole process is exhausting & I just want to complete our family! I've decided that we really are ok with just one baby, if we can just get there I will be forever greatful! Do you ever feel like you are bargaining in your head with yourself? Thanks so much for the support, it really helps just knowing there are other women experiencing the same feelings as I am. Let me know if you ever need anything, take care!

Megan trust me I feel the same way, only I have no children so far and I am dying inside to start a family. I see my DH look at other people kids and I want to give him one so bad. The hurt is unbelievable. But I stay strong and believe it will happen =) baby dust to you!!

So we got DH's SA results and.... the sample was normal, the count was normal, however the motility was decreased.

I was SO shocked I thought for sure it would come back perfect. I asked her what decreased motility meant and she said it meant they do not have normal movement.

Thats all I got out of her I was too shocked to ask anymore questions. I'll ask my OBGYN today at my apt. what that means for us. The morphology results take 2 weeks to come back.

I feel so defeated now. Not only do I not ovulate, but they found a septum in my uterus that has to get fixed, and now DH's sperm doesnt move normally... like what is normal sperm movement? Seriously? Like straight for the egg? What dose DH's sperm do just swim laps in my uterus?! I'm so frustrated.

What does this mean for us? Have any of had a similar experience? Are there any "tricks" we can do to beat this? Will I have to IUI now? OH god I'm just so tired of all this crap.

Hi Megan, just want to thank you again for your help. My Dr. is referring me to a GI specialist...will let you know how that goes, Prolactin is at normal level. YAY!