unexplained infertility??

July 09, 2008

hi im 42 in aug 2008.got 20yr old and 13 yr old.my new partner has a 4 yr old (previous relationships).

we have been ttc for 11mts . had all tests(both of us) and had the all clear..was told it is my age :-( cant understand why as i was preg at 41 but had to terminate.(so it cant be my age??)

i have been referred to the clomid clinic ( in 3 weeks) what do you think my chances of conceiving are? am i too old? will these drugs be succesfull? please help

July 09, 2008

Hi anna,

You still have a chance, but should consider going straight to much stronger treatments, such as gonadotropins or preferably IVF if possible, and would talk to your doc more about this

Good luck, and keep us posted..

*****BabyDust*****

July 09, 2008

Anna, first I want to start off by saying welcome to this site. My aunt had her 2nd baby at 42. So I personally do not think it has to do with your age. Maybe its more timing than age?...My aunt did not use any type of treatments. In fact it was a surprise pregnancy. My aunt and her dh tried for 9 yrs before having my almost 7 yr old cousin and then almost 6 years later she found out she was pregnant again. So time is an important factor. Age from my knowledge only becomes a factor if the female is about to go through "the change". Hence that might be why Dr. Q recommended stronger treatments like IVF. Most women go through the change in their mid 40s and so it becomes a race against the clock so to speak.

With all that being said: I def would speak to your doctor and see what he/she is willing to do for you. If you dont like what they say or if you desire to then you can always get a second opinion.

July 09, 2008

with your age you dont always ovulate a healthy quality egg and it would be best to talk to the doc, get on some meds and then if you are ok with lower sucess rates you could try a few rounds of IUI but i would say its best to go straight to IVF if you are in a hurry. Have you had your levels (hormones) tested to see how close you are to menopause or how many of those little eggies you have in reserve? Its good to get into the doc and have some tests done.

I am 33, have 2 kids already and got pregnancy once on our own and lost it then did 2 IUI's with injectable fertility drugs and no pregnancy then did 2 rounds of IVF and got preggo the 2nd time but lost that one too. The point is i got preggo on my own too but with doing the IVF i found out i dont have great eggs anymore so we are in a rush with time and age.

Lotsa luck and love to you!!!

July 09, 2008

I would go straight to IVF if you are able to and dh is willing. I have two friends that spent 8-10 months on IUI and nothing. I did 4 rounds of IUI at 28 and it didnt work for me. If you can afford to do IVF and are ready for it, I would go straight to it. Your chances on conception are a lot higher. Best of luck to you

July 11, 2008

Anna please keep us updated... :)

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