UGH....

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KEM

July 10, 2008

Ok I think I might need to vent! I know it does not seem like long and to those of you who continue trying for years, it is not. But...my Dh and I have been trying for 5 cycles now with no luck! I am starting to fear something is wrong. I have just been asking around and my family members who have babies or are currently preggo are saying, "oh it only took about two months" and one girl who told me that I know was lying (why would you do that)My two best friends have babies under a year and when we do things together everyone asks...when are you guys going to have one. "our kids love staying with you, so when are you going to have one". My poor dh was babysitting the other day while my BF and I went shopping. Her dh was there as well. When we walked in the door we found her dh on the couch and mine in the floor sound asleep with the baby right beside him all covered up and a chocolate milk bottle in the floor (don't ask...she is 9 months old and his answer was "she liked it"). I just wanted to cry but couldn't b/c nobody knows we are trying. Well AF has made her arrival I am sure and we are off to another month of disappointment.

July 10, 2008

I know you probably know this but it takes up to a year for a healthy couple to get pregnant. Have you used OPK yet? Maybe that will help this cycle. And you could even put on a sexy teddy and light some candles and make it a romantic night. But if you can don't tell him you are ovulating that will take the stress off of him.

*****Baby Dust*******

July 10, 2008

Aww, KEM I'm sorry!

Thats funny about the chocolate milk..sounds like something my DH would do LOL.

Hang in there. I know how you feel...at 5 months TTC I was so impatient...now that I am at 11 months TTC, I am numb. I really don't feel anything. I almost don't care anymore. Its weird how your emotions change. I am on CD19 of this cycle with no ovulation yet and all I want is for it to be over so I can start my TTC break...I would go ahead and start now since I haven't O'd yet but I have been temping all cycle and I know I'll always be wondering what my temps are doing if I stop this far into my cycle.
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KEM

July 10, 2008

Yea we use OPK's. That is one of the reasons is scares me so bad that something could be wrong. I know it can take up to a year but when you see all these others get preggo on a whim, you start to wonder.
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KEM

July 10, 2008

Hello AF....she finally made her grand appearance!

July 10, 2008

Oh KEM Im sorry- I dont know your story- have you talked to a doc? And I have heard, not what you want to hear, that people even those who are having no fertility problems can take about a year of trying to get things exactly right?

HAng in there- we are here and we hate AF as much as you do !! - UGH!~

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