TTC - 13 days late with no baby :(

Hey, Sometimes it can be so hard and depressing to go through ttc... who am I kidding, all the time is hard going through ttc! I suffered from irregular cycles and it was very frustrating, sometimes I felt like my world was going to end. Have you dicussed your fertility issues with a doc yet? If so, what treatments/tests have you had to find out what is happening? If the hpts are coming up negative it may be time to go and ask for a blood test to be sure if it is a true negative. Are your periods usually like clockwork or are they a little bit all over the place? I sure hope that you get your bfp soon and the house full of kids that you long for! Maybe when you get your bfp you'll get lucky and have twins! ;) No matter how hard it gets, don't lose hope, keep on trying until you get what you are waiting for! It is so worth the wait! :)

~~~~~BABY DUST~~~~~

Thank you so much for your kind words! My cycle is 36 days and sometimes irregular but otherwise pretty constant...the next step is 'the talk' with my doc...I'm 29 and I guess I never really thought I would have issues...I have had a blood test and two urine tests and they were all negative...waiting for the other results to come back and then will have a follow-up with my GP. I need to be happy that I have a beautiful 5 year old daughter and a loving husband...maybe things won't seem so bleak if I focus on the negative...I guess I am just wanted some time to feel sorry for myself...

Again, thanks!

Hey mom, Being an only child, I completely understand how u feel, I wanted many kids myself, but just having one child seemed to take for ever. Finally I did get preggo and have a baby now. I want two more, but I have no idea how long it may take, my periods are messed up after the delivery so I have no starting point. I am 31 now :(

Have you considered talking to a Dr yet? because with your cycle length and the irregular cycles here and there, its worthwhile. Start using Ovulation Kits to determine ur fertile days. Negative tests is bcause you ovulated late or never ovulated at all. Once u ovulate, u will get a period or a + preggo test 14 days later 100%. Ur tests are -ve because you did not ovulate atleast 2 weeks before the test.

Stay positive, I know its hard coz Im on the same boat as u, but the way I feel is I have a baby that I did not have 6 months ago and who knows I may have never even had her. The way I see is the next one is a bonus and I just have to count my blessing and be happy, but God I wish for atleast 3 more, I know thats not possible though :(