Trying to stay strong TTC after recurrent M/C!!

Oh, dear. I can't imagine how hard it is to lose a baby, let alone 4! You are one tough woman! Have you called your doctor to ask for a beta? I hope this one is real for you! Keeping you in my prayers, and sending you baby dust and positive thoughts!!

I'm doing alright, a little depressed...but nothing compared to what you are going through. I just found out that 3 of my friends are pregnant and one is waiting to find out. I just don't understand why the ones who want to have babies are unable, and the ones who are careless have so many children. ='(

Anyway, I'm going to try to keep my head up, you do the same!

make that 4 possibly 5 friends. Don't get me wrong I'm happy for them, but sad that I can't seem to get pg! Oh and I have a baby shower to go to next month for my 7-months pregnant co-worker/friend.

Awwwww I feel so sad for you, I can feel your pain and the song you posted is very fitting. I watched your scan too and its hard to believe after you see that your baby heart was beating and it wriggled around. i wish I had the words to comfort you. But you know I am sure your dream to have another baby will come true. You are clearly a lovely mommy and I have personal experience of how much this all hurts. (((((hugs))))) and prayer and baby dust to you.

I dont know what to say, only what a courageous woman u and, and no hint of bitterness either. i dont want to sound patronising but ur an inspiration.

Im sitting here feeling sorry for myself because im going through a chemical my first ever bfp has now turned into a bfn, but if u can get through all this then i can get through what im feeling now.

Thanks for sharing ur story and god willing ur will get that bfp and keep that bfp!

Good luck and ****BABYDUST***

Hi there, good to chat last night.

I thought I would give you an up-date. I went for my scan this morning first thing - so far so good - strong heart beat but still looks like a blob, told me to come back in another 3 weeks, which at this point feels like a life time away. She didnt or rather wouldnt tell me what its heart best per minute was. She said to me that at this stage they only bother about establishing a strong heart beat. They only worry if it looks slow......I thought that was a bit odd but any how thats what she said.

But I did talk to her aout my own m/c that I had before and like you had seen the arms and legs, strong heart beat, rolling around etc. She said to me that it is very uncommon to loose a baby once all that has been seen. She said that its most common to loose a baby early doors so before 8 weeks really. That also includes losses that have been missed - so for exacmple going for a 12 week scan butthe baby died a few weeks before - so whilst its like losing at 12 weekss, its not really, your body just hadnt picked up and started to m/c yet.

I asked her what my risk of m/c was now we had seen the heart beat and she said it was still 1 in 4. From memory thats what they are saying your risk is too even with the inversion issue.

So if you think about this way, even though you have had several m/c, you have the same chnace as me of having another.

So next time may just work out fine.

I think that like me - you have just been incredibly unlucky and I want to give you some positive vibes for your next prego.

Life is never simple thats for sure. You are a very brave lady and I am sure you feel like your bravery is running out!

But I am sure you will hate me saying this, but any how, age is very much on your side and I am sure that the next time round you will get that longed for baby - so chin up.

(((hugs)) ****baby dust****