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Trying to conceive with Irregular Periods and Overweight, any suggestions?

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Texas_Girl

March 16, 2008

Hello To All,

I am new here. When I say new I don't just mean to the sight, I mean to all of this in general, TTC I mean.

If its not to much to ask, I was hoping to get some of my questions answered.

I guess I will start by explaning a little bit about myself. i am 19 years old, I have been married for close to 2 years, my husband and I have been trying to get pregnant for the last 6 months, with no luck. I have irregular periods, meaning I have about 2-3 heavy periods a year (if I am lucky), and I am about 80-100 pounds overweight( does weight matter?) I guess my question is where should we start? We would really love to be parents, and I wanna know how to make that happen. I read somewhere the first step when TTC is making a doctors appointment, well what kind of doctor should I see? An OBGYN or a physician? Should I make an appointment for just me or should I make one for my husband too? Where should we go from there? Is there anything we should do before I make an appointment to see a doctor?

Sorry to be playing 20 questions, we are just really anxious to start a family. Anyhow thanks in advance. Any information is better than no information!
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HopeN

March 16, 2008

Hi Texas Girl, welcome to Fertility Ties!

Ok, since u say u dont have regular periods, it means u are not ovulating (releasing the egg). If this doesnt happen, then u cant get preggo or u wont get periods. U need to see an Ob Gyn or if u need aggressive treatment, see a REproductive Endocrinologist to first make u ovulate. Talk to ur Dr abt Poly Cystic Ovarian Syndrome (PCOS). She will do a few blood tests and give pills like Clomid, Provera to start ur period and help u ovulate.

Secondly, overweight can lead to PCOS and irregular periods. I didnt get my periods for a whole year because I put on 30-35 lbs all of a sudden and it resumed once I lost them all. So, your best starting point is to start losing the weight. Im sure this is what ur Dr is going to advise you to do too.

The RE will perform fertility tests on you first and then if needed on ur hubby too. Just browse around the internet for good REs in ur area and go through their resumes and stuff.

U will definately be a mommy soon. But as u mentioned the starting point is to see a Dr and weight loss. Good Luck!
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Texas_Girl

March 17, 2008

Thank you HopeN. I am already trying to lose the weight, but it is proving difficult. I do good one day, then the next Im back to giving into my cravings. As far as seeing on OBGYN goes, what tests do they normally run in order to figure out why I'm not ovulating? Is it costly? I don't have health insurance, any expense would be out of pocket.
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HopeN

March 17, 2008

Do u have insurance that covers infertility?

They would do an

LH,

FSH

Prolactin

TSH

DHEAS

Testosterone

ACTH

Glucose

Insulin

Lipid panel

Complete blood work

If u dont have insurance, at the minimum, ur dr will do LH, FSH, Prolactin, TSH, DHEAS to see if u have PCOS or not. Im not sure abt the cost as my insurance covers these blood tests. Im sorry that u dont have health insurance..Good Luck
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christian

March 17, 2008

HI TEXAS GIRL(IM FROM TEXAS TOO) I JUST WANTED TO WELCOME YOU TO THE SITE HOPEN IS RIGHT U NEED TO GO SEE A DR I WOULD PROBABLY START WITH OBGYN SINCE U ARE NOT INSURED(NOT SURE HOW EXPENSIVE A RE IS) THEY WILL PERFORM TEST TO SEE WHAT IS GOING ON WITH UR BODY. I AM ALSO OVER WEIGHT AND ONLY HAVE A PERIOD MAYBE 2-3 TIMES A YEAR, BUT I DONT HAVE PCOS I WAS PUT ON PROMETRIUM TO INDUCE MY PERIOD AND AM ON MY 4TH CYCLE OF CLOMID TO HELP ME OVULATE IF THIS CYCLE DONT WORK I WILL BE MOVING ON TO INJECTIONS. IF YOU HAVE ANY QUESTIONS THE LADIES AND DR.S ON HERE ARE AWESOME AND VERY GOOD ABOUT HELPING U, GOOD LUCK GIRL LOTS OF BABY DUST. PS WHAT PART OF TEXAS ARE U FROM?
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Texas_Girl

March 17, 2008

Thanks for all the help ladies. To answer you question HopeN I dont have any form of insurance, period and Christian I am from central texas.
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christian

March 17, 2008

I AM FROM FORT WORTH IM NOT SURE HOW MUCH THE TEST WILL RUN U CAUSE MY INSURANCE COVERS IT BUT THE CLOMID ISNT EXPENSIVE AT ALL MY INSURANCE DONT COVER IT AN I ONLY PAY $27
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HopeN

March 17, 2008

Not sure about how much an Ob Gyn can charge u..depends but anywhere between $100-120 here in IL if ur insurance doesnt cover it. I am guessing the lack of regular periods may make the Dr Rx Clomid without blood tests, but generally the blood tests are done before treatment begins. May be u can convince ur Dr that u know u want to give it a shot..I totally understand about difficulty in losing weight..It was very tough for me..But my Dr refused to give me medications unless I lost the weight, so I had no choice, and now I am 31 weeks preggo. So, dont lose hope. If u are over 35 u may need more aggressive treatment than clomid and for that u definately need insurance as it requires regular Ultrasounds and other things..U can also try something called Fertilaid, Ovulex etc. No one can say for sure it works and they are in no way a substitute to clomid or other fertility meds, but if u dont have the resources, u can do ur weight loss along with these meds and see how they work as something is better than nothing..minimally, u may atleast need Provera to start ur period cycle and agan only a Dr can Rx that. Ultimately its ur choice and sending u tons of

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Texas_Girl

March 18, 2008

Thank you Hope! How long had you been trying to get preggo, before it happened? Is this your first baby? Are you having a boy or girl? Sorry to ask so many questions, I guess congratulations is more like it!

I am 19 about to be 20 in a April, so age isn't the problem. I am gonna talk to my husband today about making a gyno appointment. If blood tests are 100% necessary I am sure we can find the money to have them done, even if it means going without a few luxurixes for a little while. As far as Provera and Clomid go, that doesn't sound to bad, so long as Clomid isn't gonna guarantee that I have twins or triplets! :)

Thanks for your help Ladies!
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HopeN

March 18, 2008

Hey Texas Girl, Thanks!. yes this is my first. Im having a girl :) I was trying for a while beginning dec 2005 and didnt know anything abt conceiving, PCOS, I wasnt even having regular periods taht time, so 12 months had passed that way and then I was losing weight for about 4 months and stuff and then finally got preggo Aug 2007.

You are very young and u have time by ur side. thats the greatest advantage u have,I was 27 when i started trying. So, it would freak me out abt the clock ticking lol.

Good luck and keep us posted abt ur Drs visit. Good Luck.
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Carolyn T.

March 18, 2008

Hi Texas Girl, good luck with everything!! Hope is right your youth/age is what really counts!

Hope, I have a question for u...I have been asking everyone. When you had preg symptoms, did u have more thatn usual cm. Also, are corpus luteum cysts a good sign. RE said I have several. I am 14dpo
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