Trying to conceive
July 14, 2008
Hi, I am from India and was married last september 2007. I have regular periods.....May and June i got my periods on 15th.......July 3rd and 5th husband and myself were together....though i knew chances are very less of becoming pregnant as my fertility period was over......i was anxious but today i got my periods...am depressed....actually we dont hve enough of time to be together because of our busy schedules but otherwise we are a very happy couple together...and deeply bonded.....and also i am having a lot of questions...
1. Does fertility period really work?
2. Assuming i have an intercourse with hubby and i conceive (i may not know that it has been formed..) and having sex at that time (the shaking and moving) will it affect the child...?
3. i am still not able to come to a conclusion if i am weak as we have sex 2-4 times a month...am becoming worried....
4. am 27 going on 28.....this september will complete 28 and step into 29....
5. and usually our intercourse is that i come on top of him....because of which there is sperm spills outside......only 30% goes in..? does it affect.? should the whole semen go inside or how does it work?
6. am working night shifts for the past 3 years....fyi...
please doctor...give me a detailed answer....am desperate to conceive...as i am afraid because of my age...hubby is 31......i am stressed and depressed because of this.....help me please.........
1. Does fertility period really work?
2. Assuming i have an intercourse with hubby and i conceive (i may not know that it has been formed..) and having sex at that time (the shaking and moving) will it affect the child...?
3. i am still not able to come to a conclusion if i am weak as we have sex 2-4 times a month...am becoming worried....
4. am 27 going on 28.....this september will complete 28 and step into 29....
5. and usually our intercourse is that i come on top of him....because of which there is sperm spills outside......only 30% goes in..? does it affect.? should the whole semen go inside or how does it work?
6. am working night shifts for the past 3 years....fyi...
please doctor...give me a detailed answer....am desperate to conceive...as i am afraid because of my age...hubby is 31......i am stressed and depressed because of this.....help me please.........
July 14, 2008
Best maybe to see an RE in India who can better guide you and provide treatments for you to conceive hopefully very easily, doing IUIs with your hubby's sperm even if you're both not available...position/spilling has little to no effect, and if you were to conceive, continuing to have sex also has no effect