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Trying again after 2 miscarriages??

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Holly-(...

January 11, 2009

Hey Ladies! I am wondering if I can get some advice/help. In July I had my first m/c. I was 5 wks. In Sept I had my 2nd m/c at 7 wks. I havent even been able to THINK about ttc again and I have felt completely broken and terrified!!

So DH and I have been talking, i am due for AF in the next day or so and we are thinking about trying again this next cycle. I am TERRIFIED. I can't see it not happening again. All I know is miscarriages. How can one keep trying whan that's all they know is miscarriage??

I have done the whole miscarriage workup and HSG and everything and it all came back normal. The Dr. put me on progesterone and baby asprin (I was on the baby asprin the 2nd m/c too) but we know noting else.

There are times I think I can try again adn then times that I think it will kill me to have another m/c. What do I do???

I know the outcome of a good pregnancy is "worth it" but what if that baby never comes???? Is it possible to have nothing BUT miscarriages??

Thanks for any advise that you might have. I do appreciate it!!!
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Amy2

January 12, 2009

Holly,

I feel for you hun and can understand your fears. I don't know if there is anything I can say to calm your fears other than other women on this site have experienced the same thing and have had a healthy pregnancy. Unless you try, you will never know. I'll say a prayer for you that if you do try, become pregnant, this one sticks for you. Try not to stress hun.
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Nicki

January 12, 2009

I know how hard it can be to even THINK about trying again after 2 m/c. I had 2 m/c before this pregnancy. After the second m/c I didnt want to even think about trying again, the doctor put me on pergestrone in the beginning of my pregnancy and it seemed to work. I believe you said you have already tried this? If you have I would still take the pergestrone the next time too just to be on the safe side. I never got to have any tests done on me to see why I was having m/c's. All my doctor told me was that it was just bad timing and something wasnt right and it couldnt survive. I hope all goes well while ttc, and dont give up!! Good Luck!!
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Holly-(...

January 12, 2009

Thanks Nicki! That helps a lot. I have not been on progesterone yet. I will be trying that this time. I hope and pray that works for me!!!

I appreciate that multiple miscarriage stories. It does help to know that I CAN have a healthy baby. I am so so scared.
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Amy2

January 12, 2009

Holly,

I was on progesterone with this pregnancy too because I miscarried before this one. I took it for the first trimester. It never hurts anything so ask your doctor. All my best to you. We are here for you.
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Holly-(...

January 12, 2009

Oh, I will definitely be on progesterone starting this cycle. It was the first thing my RE prescribed. My Progesterone level at 5 wks was only 12:( That seems low to me. That was last time so this time we are doing progesterone supplements starting 2dpo.

I am due for AF anyday now and I think as soon as we can we will try again. I am just so so scared:( Thanks for the encouragement! I do appreciate it!
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Amy2

January 12, 2009

At 5 weeks mine was 15 and my doctor said it was borderline so she put me on it. Hope that helps. Keep us posted on how you are doing.
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Holly-(...

January 12, 2009

Bump for stories?
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Davey's...

January 12, 2009

Holly, I know it is hard I have been through 4 in a row before finally having my baby. I did give up hope several times but I guess my desire yto have a baby outweighed anything else. My RE is the kindess person every I love him. He held my hand and let me cry when I found out I lost the 4th one. he promised me he would not let it happen. He would have saved that baby if I had seen him in time but my OB/GYN was still trying to treat me at the time. It never gets easier but you do learn to deal with it. My RE told me when I was pregnant with DD that I would never stop worrying, not until she was here. He was right I worried about everything and you are going to, but that is ok. Fertility ties help me every time I thought I was having a set back I honestly think this site is the only reason I made it through. My Progesterone at 4.5 - 5weeks not sure it was 3 days after my missed period was 12.8 He said it was good but gave me progesterone anyway. I took 4400mcgs of folic acid, for the MTHFR gene, 1 baby aspirin and a prenantal vitamin along with the progesterone. It is ok to be scared just know that we are here to hold your hand the best we can. ((HUGS))
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