today is 3 months since my Chemical Pregnancy

Aww, I'm sorry Laurie! I had a chemical a couple weeks ago. I know how you feel. I hope you get a BFP soon!

Are you on any meds? I am taking Clomid, I'm on my 2nd round...had my chemical on the first round.

Oh, We've been TTC for 13 months now.

hey I am not on any meds (personal choice) and have been ttc#1 for over a year and half now...

I can understand for personal reasons why you are not on any medications but have you seen an RE to see why it took over a year to conceive in the first place? They may be able to help you understand what is going on. Statistically, if everything is alright, you should conceive within the first year. Just checking. Want to make sure you cover all of your basis. Typically if it took that long, there is something that isn't quite functioning up to parr.

ugh!! I know how you feel! It took me 9 months to get a bfp (iui) after my m/c ( Of course I hope it doesn't take that long for you!!). It just sucks!!!!!!!

no we havent seen an RE yet. I conceived exactlly 1 year from when we were trying and than lost it.. so we know we can get pregnant and I dont have the right insurance that will cover all this so we just wait patiently until we feel its the right time for us to go in, i guess..

I have had 2 m/c this year and am now 9wks with a healthy pregnancy. It took us 3 months after the 1st miscarriage and I was pregnant again. Then my body went crazy after the second. I saw an RE to get pregnant this time and it ended up being a genetic issue with me and I already have a healthy 3yr old (so it was a shock). It might be in your best interest to seek advice from an RE. I am so sorry for your loss and hope you get that BFP very soon! :)

thanks jessica. If you dont mind me asking what kind of genetic issue was it? You dont have to answer if you dont want too.. and what did they do for you??

I didn't have the insurance either and I called around to different offices for their prices first. This iui - which was unmedicated- cost $1000. It is pricey and I saved for it before I went in but I was happy to see the office allowed you to have payment plans.

Laurie, do you use opks? I got my BFP after using them. Unfortunately i ended up miscarrying. But still, I would recommend them. Also have you considered evening primrose oil to increase cm?

hey ss yeah i used the opk and my first time as well i got pregnant and lost the baby as well. and now i just found another friend is pregnant.. i am so losing my freaking mind.. i know a total about like 10 ppl. pregnant NOW. its never gonna happen.. is it? =( oh and I have enough CM lol

i learnt last month that our friends got pregnant "accidentally". I am happy for them, but still find it hard to digest. How come such happy "accidents" never happen to me? It is kinda hard when we see this happening to everyone around us.

ss. yeah i hope we get our happy "accidents" soon too.. i am hoping this month is it. i am currently 9 dpo I THINK this month we just "winged" it so i am not sure when i ovulated, just a guess as too when i ovulated. errrrrrrrrr, i am seriously just going to cry... i am.. (((((crying))))))

Laurie dear, I'm praying that this is your month too. Just a few more days and you can test! Good luck, please dont lose heart

ss. thanks i hope its all of our months! lol =) i know it wont be but i hope alot of us get our bfp's. i want it so badly because we wanted a june baby and that will be my dh and I's 2nd year anniversary. its so hard to stay so positive for like 2 years and no hope.. i am trying but i am losing hope.. =/ i guess i just have my high hope days and my really low days. i am really thinking this month may be it but i dont want to get too excited about it to be let down..

I have a question for you wonderful ladies, and MAYBE you can help me.. So my last period was Sept 21st- Sept 26th (5-6 days which is normal for me) and I am normally any where from 27 days to 29 days in my cycle. Well last week I had a bloody nose for 3-4 days just for a little bit each time and than late last week for 2 days when I brushed my teeth my gums were bleeding. Well I took an HPT yesterday and it came back NEGITIVE but today I have been having heartburn, and my bbs are a little sore. Now I go through this every month and I am getting so sick of getting my hopes high. But my bbs hurt more than usual and well this morning I wasnt feel too good but I am okay now since I ate and I am always so tired.. I just cant go through another month with a negitive. =( I know of 10 ppl that are pregnant RIGHT NOW and it just blows my mind.. any ideas or advice?? thanks ladies!

oh I think I am currently 11 dpo today and my period should arrive on saturday or sunday but hoping it DOESNT!

Im sorry laurie - it sure is hard! My SIL just delivered a lovely baby boy yesterday and i am pissed and happy all at the same time! lol!

Im at 9 or 10DPO and i know you are ahead of me, when yoe expect AF to show? Maybe its just too earlu still to see the BFP.

Your mind sure can play tricks on you while TTC. Even tho i know each time i am preggo the months when im not i can stare at a test so closely taht i can almost convince myself there is a 2nd line.... its crazy!

I had a m/c last year in Aug and then not preggo again until this june and then m/c again.... still waiting.... urg!

The waiting game is what is the hardest to me. Having the sex, and doing what you should to get pg is not a difficult task, but waiting and hoping is. It messes with your mind because it is something you want so bad. You almost trick yourself into thinking you are pg and then you are let down with a BFN. Try to relax more in ttc journey otherwise it becomes your life and you do not want to loose yourself in this. Trust me it was a hard thing for me to learn. I too want a baby so bad, but now that I have not obsessed myself in trying it is so much better. Everything! I even enjoy the sex better too. lol and there was never a prob there =)

Veronica said that anytime after 12dpo you should have an accurate reading on a hpt. If your cycles are regular, then wait till tomorrow at 12dpo and test again if it is a - then it is prob -

I hope for the best tho. I can tell how bad you want this so it breaks my heart for you every month when I see you have gotten another -.

Keep your head up and try not to stress. Let it all be funn. BABY DUST TO YOU

thanks ladies... see your all so wonderful. I cant afford to see an RE and my ob I am switching I think b/c that doctors office is crazy! lol but we'll see. just the one doctor i dont like from there and i had to deal with him with my MC because it happened on a sunday and he was the on call doctor.. he was so rude and mean.. it truley upsetted me. and i have been more emotional latley. i dont know if its b/c i may be pregnant or because i want this SO bad that i am letting myself get more emotinal. ???