Suggestions plz??

Remember that it is her baby.....she can take people's advice but remember that she gets to make the decisions. :)

Oh....if it is a boy use a burp cloth or something like it to cover his little "pennie" up when changing him b/c otherwise she will get sprayed! LOL!

Thanks Fran.. yeah seh knows that but she wants some suggestions so she can try them and have them.

I will let her know about that one. I didnt even think about that. I should have tho since my son did it to me the 1st time I gave him a bath. LOL!

bump for everyone thats on here.

bump for everyone on FT!!

Tummy time will strengthen his muscles. It's always good

Thanks wanna.. I hope to get alot of suggestions so that I can send them to her. I hope that everyone on here gives me some. She will be so excited to have all of them.

swaddle blankets ROCK!!! That was the only way to get my niece to sleep decently! She would startle easily in her sleep and the swaddle blankets helped by keeping her snug and she definitly was not nearly as jumpy! Also, they helped her sleep longer!

Thansk LisaE.. I love all the suggestions and she will to. Im learning some new ones myself. LOL!

bump for caryn

Katie- here are mine

Being a parent is not something you can really prepare for. While you are pregnant and even after your baby is born, you will get advice from all angles. Some of the advice will make you laugh, other advice will make you mad and other advice will make you discouraged that it didn’t work. The most important thing to remember as a new parent is that every baby is different and you have to find what works for you and your baby. With the advice you are about to get, take it in stride, and don’t get mad or discouraged if it doesn’t work for you.

During the first few weeks, you may want to think about having a family member come stay with you to help out. You probably won’t feel much like cooking or cleaning at first. You will want to spend your time getting to know your new baby and sleeping. Having a family member around can be a lifesaver because they can help you get your chores done. They will also appreciate the time they get to spend with your new baby and will gladly help you out because of it.

Adjusting to the sounds of a screaming baby can be a nerve racking experience. Don’t stress yourself out if your baby doesn’t calm herself instantly when you pick her up. Sometimes your baby will cry inconsolably. Do your best to make her comfortable but don’t worry if she doesn’t stop crying immediately. It’s natural.

The first few weeks after your baby is born will be a bit hectic and you won’t want to have to run to the store to pick up any baby items you forgot or didn’t realize you needed. At least a month before your baby is born, in case she comes early, you should have everything you need for at least the first few weeks. Although some of these items are optional, you may want to consider them or what you will use in place of them. Don’t get too caught up with extra items you aren’t sure you’ll use because although something like a wipe warmer sounds like a good idea now, they aren’t all that practical.

You will be amazed at the rate your baby goes through clothes. Between spitting up and leaking through their diapers, your baby will go through several outfits every day. Make sure you have a good selection of the following items for your baby: Bibs, socks, sleepers, gowns, hats, bodysuits, pants, blankets, and t-shirts. A few of each of these items should do. You might want to invest in a few more sleepers, gowns and blankets as you will be going through them like water during the first few weeks after your baby arrives.

You will go through 10-12 diapers a day, at least at first, so be sure to stock up on plenty of these before your baby gets here. You may want to get at least one package of preemie or newborn diapers for the first few days. Newborns can be extremely small and don’t always fit into the first size of diapers right away. You will also want to have plenty of wipes on hand; sometimes you will need quite a few for just one diaper change! You should also have diaper rash ointment, thermometer, respirator (though you’ll usually get one at the hospital), nail clippers and a diaper pail.

The diaper bag is an essential part of taking your baby out, even if only for a few minutes. Always make sure you have your bag packed with a few diapers, wipes, changing pad, extra change of clothes, socks, rattle or toy, an extra bib or two and a blanket. You may want to throw 10 or 20 dollars in your bag for “just in case” money, you never know when you are going to lose a bottle or need another pacifier.

If you are planning on breastfeeding, you really don’t need anything unless you plan on pumping, in which case you would need to invest in a breast pump, storage baggies and bottles. If you plan on bottle feeding, even if it’s only part time, you will need to stock up on supplies to ensure you don’t run out of anything when your baby needs to be fed. Buy both small and large bottles, sometimes your baby will be hungrier than others. You will also need a short list of essential items such as: bottle liners or brushes, plenty of formula and a bottle warmer and sterilizer

Your baby’s first bath is a special time for both baby and her parents alike. However, a baby is much more sensitive to hot water than adults. A baby’s bath water should be tepid, no more than 100 degrees Fahrenheit. To prevent accidental burns, turn your water heater down to 120 degrees Fahrenheit.

Ok hope that helps

WOw thanks so much Caryn. that is awesome! i think u have covered it all. LOL!

bump for sar222 and ladies...

bump again for sar222.. LOL!

you can never use too much alcohol on the nasty cord stump...LOL

Do not tiptoe around your baby :)

Do not over dress your baby

Do sing to your baby and read to them, from day one!

Never hesitate to call your ped, if you have a question.

No talc powder on baby girls bottom area

No suntan lotion until at least 4mnths old

Do smother your baby with hugs and kisses :))))

A video monitor is awesome!

Sleep positioners are not needed

Lay baby on back for sleep

Do not use reg bumpers, they make a mesh one now that's breatheable :)

Oh wow SAr222.. that is awesome. I will have to remember all of these things when i get preggo.. LOL!

Remember to tell her to enjoy every min of it becuase they grow so fast :(

even when they are screaming or throwing up all over you..... tell her not to listen too much to what others tell her to do and tell her not to feel bad and kick herself over and over if she makes a mistake, its all part of parenting.

BTW, i picked my kids up everytime they cried and did co-sleeping for the first 3 months and wouldnt have done it any other way.... i couldnt stand to listen to them cry and we didnt have issues with them sleeping or being "spoiled". My son LOVED to go to his bed and sleep so no issues w/that.

I did however let them have their pacifier anytime they wanted up until about 7 months and hten it was just for bed (gave them a reason for bed, lol) and then it was much easier to get them to give it up around age 2.5 or so.

Sar.. i sure will let her know all of the ideas. She will be so thankful for all the ideas that u all have came up with. Thanks so much ladies!

Awesome :))))))