question about sex.

Hi Disha that is very normal and it can be very unpleasent at first. When having sex the first time Many ppl are concerned that it will hurt the first time they have sexual intercourse. It can hurt and some women do bleed a little bit. The bleeding usually occurs because the women has a hymen which breaks the first time she has sexual intercourse.

The hymen is a small piece of thin skin which goes across the opening of the vagina and protects it when she is young. It has some gaps in it where the blood can come out when she has her period. Sometimes a female might already have broken her hymen without knowing about it. For example, this can happen as a result of playing sports or horse riding. So once this is torn the bleeding will not there is not health risk with it very normal for this to happen.

To make it a lil easier for you and your new husband (congrats on the wedding) is place some cooking oil on you and he and tell him to take your time and maybe try some foreplay to make you and him lil bit more relax and just take your time with it and let him know about what is going on. Maybe place a towel so the blood will not get on your sheets. It will get easier as time goes by...

awww, no worries hun! I can say that the 1st time is not the most exciting or pleasurable experience but it gets better! Make sure that you have a glass of wine or 2 to get rid of those nerves and that you use lube so that it is not painful. Sometimes you bleed a little but its not like a gush or a period.

Take care and try to enjoy :)