I am so sorry to hear about your loss babyquestions... :( I will be keeping you in my prayers.... unfortunately, I don't know much about d&c's.. but I'm sure someone will.
Miscarriage...
July 07, 2008
Hi Girls- thank you for all your congrats and support over the last couple weeks. I had my first u/s today and there is no fetus. Blighted Ovum. My doctor is scheduling me for a d&c tomorrow or wednesday. Any advice or info on the d&c would be great. we are clearly devastated.
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I feel for you. I'm so sorry for your loss. What to expect when you have a D&C...honestly, I think if your dr. suggests it then I say do it. I had one 3 months ago. They will put you to sleep and you will wake up and it will be over. I had bleeding for about 10 days. Was told to wait a month to try (this differs from dr. to dr.). After 2 months was pregnant again. It was the best decision for me at the time. I'm keeping you in my prayers.
thanks girls...maggie- don't be nervous. I was (still am) having all my pregnancy symptoms because these come from the developing placenta (i think) and not the developing fetus. There is no reason to believe that you would have a blighted ovum/miscarriage as well.
had my d&c this morning...hopefully the sore bbs, etc. go away soon because all they do is remind me of the loss and that we can't start trying again for a while.
my dh and i's anniversary is next week...bad timing...
had my d&c this morning...hopefully the sore bbs, etc. go away soon because all they do is remind me of the loss and that we can't start trying again for a while.
my dh and i's anniversary is next week...bad timing...
:( BabyQ. You seem so strong. I am glad you can be tough through times like this. I don't know why I worry cause its not good for me, but I still do. I wanted an u/s last week SO bad but he would do it. He said in 2 - 3 weeks, but couldn't get me in for 5. So... maybe that is good though, so if there is bad news I don't have to deal with it so soon, although maybe it would be better to know earlier than later.... I don't know why I am so negative. I am 99% of the time a positive person. My best friend had a m/c last fall and her due date is just around the corner and it makes me sad for her and makes me think if it can happen to these other people it can very well happen to me. I suppose I am being selfish here. You are the one going through all this pain and emotional draining... I shouldn't go on. But keep me in your thoughts. I am definately thinking of you and will be looking forward to your new post that says BFP. Stay strong.
thanks maggie- i am not actually staying that strong...I am kind of a mess...crying and just do mad (at what? at who???). i want a baby so badly. we were so excited to be pregnant after just one cycle of clomid. now we have to wait again to even try. I don't have any friends that have been through this. I just don't understand why it happened to dh & i. it doesn't seem fair. :( :(
I am so sorry. It is completely normal to feel angry, sad, and a multitude of emotions. I know women in their 80s who remember miscarrying with sadness. One thing they all told me - including the ones without children - it does get easier to deal with even though the pain is going to be there. (According to the men whose wives suffered the same is true for them.)
I, myself, just miscarried. And, yes, it hurts. I don't think there is anyone who doesn't think or cry that we want our baby back. I wish no one ever had to experience this.
I, myself, just miscarried. And, yes, it hurts. I don't think there is anyone who doesn't think or cry that we want our baby back. I wish no one ever had to experience this.
thanks MLO- i hope you are starting to feel better and becoming more positive. I was always in awe (i don't even know if that's the right word...) of women that went through miscarriages. I would always think "wow, i could NEVER get through that." And here i am. I know i will get through it, but i just wish i didn't have to. I just really don't get it. So many women get pregnant without trying or without wanting the baby...and here i am trying, wanting, and then losing it....take care of yourself!
I am newer to this site and still learning my way around this. I came across your post and my heart goes out to you sweetie. I feel your pain and send paryers your way. Thank you for being so sweet to me and answering some of my quetions. This site is so helpful b/c as we all know, this is a tramtic time and to have support is so wonderful. We will all reach our goal and when we do, it will be the most splendid day ever. Lot's of prayers and good wishes your way. Please let us know how you are doing.
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July 07, 2008
I would talk to Chels on that issue BabyQ! She jsut had one!
Again , Im so sorry hun!