Increase sperm count

Sally that is very common for some of the sperm to dribble out sperm does liquidity very fast. After you bd many of us women put a couple pillows below our hip and rise our hips in the air and lay down for about 30 mins. Even if you don't do that you will still have enough sperm that launches on you cm and will travel to the tubes.

I just dont understand why it too k 3 months to fall pregnant with our daughter-She was 5 last month-and now we have been trying for 2 years ans 3 months and nothing is happening.It is getting very depressing and even suicidle.The doctors have no answers

Awwww Sally I'm so sorry. Sally why is it getting to the point of suicide?

Let me give you some great education on trying to get preggo....even with a healthy couple has a 20% to 25% chance of getting pregnant even with timing things just right. It all depends on age, health issues with the man and woman. Most dr's says that if you are under 35 years old it could take up to one year to get preggo. If you are over 35 years old your chances does increase. Now being 3 mths is not even close to worring about anything right now.

Sally I'm very worried about you. Pls know you are not allow with what is going on during this journey. There are so many many ppl including myself that have been trying to get preggo for mths and even yrs. Pls let us know you are ok. We are a supportive community and if you need some help let us help you. Sending you big (((hugs))) and prayers your way

Sally, a huge portion of the ladies in here feel what you are going through and know the pain of failed attempts. But keep you spirits up and we just have to believe that our turn and time will come. It's hard to remain hopeful but take comfort in your friends and family and your daughter.. HUGS

Hang in there Sally, make sure you visit an RE who can also do more testing and provide treatments for you so that you can get pregnant again..

Hi guys.Thanks for your support.The doctors have put it down to unexplained infetility and we cant afford the cost of fertility treatment.Im only 29 and my husband is only 33 so our age is not an issue.It just gets so depressing at times.My sister has got 3 kids and she is always making comments like she wishes she never had kids.Shes only 23 and unmarried to a no hoper living off the dol.She doesnt realise how hard it is for me to hear her say that knowing that i may only have the child ive got.Dont get me wrong i love ,my daughter to death but i desperatly want another baby.My family is not complete and im frightend that it will split my family up the pressure of wanting another child.I go and have a good cry when i hear that my family and friends are pregnant with no trouble at all.I need a raincoat for my keyboard.

We all need to have those good cries. And my DH and I are surrounded by family and friends that are pregnant or just had a new baby. And they don't understand the heartache for those of us trying to conceive. They don't intend to hurt us with comments they say. We just opened up to our friends and family about our journey and since then it's been easier..

I'm sending you loads of baby dust. Stay positive. All of our turns will come!

You know what hurts even more.My daughter has started asking when is SHE going to get a brother and sister because her friends at school have got one or 2 or 3 or 4.She told me today shes the only one in her class without a sibling.

That made my heart so heavy for her

yes.. My son asks now too all the time. We have explained to him that we are seeing a FE to help us.. So the other day when one of the kids parents came to pick up their kids my son told them that the doctor's and nurses are going to put a baby in my tummy..lol.. And I laughed and said ya that's what we're hoping for!

It will happen agaiN!

Im Queensland,Australia

Hi Ladies,

my little boy is constantly asking me to go the the doctors to see if God has put a baby there too. It is so difficult to answer questions from 4 year olds.!! He too feels that he is the odd one out and that all of his friends have siblings so why can't he. I try to explain to him that he is very very lucky as he gets all of mummy and daddy' love and attention and doesn't have to share it with anyone. Last year just before my second miscarriage at 12 weeks he told everyone in his preschool that mummy had a baby in her tummy, bless him. I denied it at the time which was just as well because I subsequently miscarried. So I know what you are feeling ladies.

where are you suzi?

I live in the UK.

Sally

I also live in Australia and have children so we decided we would like one more 15 months later still wasnt happening Dh was told he was on the lower side with sperm count so I went to see my fertility specialist in NewCastle in September because my doctor said we wouldnt conceive without iui or ivf, he told Dh to take centrum and that it would happen in November I got a bfp sadley I lost the baby at 13 weeks but I know that we can still conceive,

centrum has everything in it that is needed for the male reproduction mite be worth a try. Good Luck

Louise

Thank you louise.i will get my husband to give it a go

Hi sally Im also from australia Im in sydney....If you evea want to chat I here for you...I can totally relate to how you are feeling atm. Ive been ttc for about 20months now and Iva had 2 miscariages. All my friends seem to be getting preggo atm and it breaks my heart each time one of them tells me they are gonna have a baby. I cry and cry all the time but the ladies on here are always there for me and are a wonderful support. I class some of them as my closet friends. Im actually going thru a bit of a depressive stage atm about the whole ttc thing but I try each day when I wake up to tell myself that today is a new day and you never know it might be my baby day. I also try to remind myself that as hard and tough as this all is in the end its gonna make me and my relationship stronger. I know this might seem easy to say trust my I struggle everyday but I keep pushing thru because I need to have faith and believe that it will happen for me....

And it'll happen for you....

Sending you loads of baby dust....

We were told also for my DH to take selenium

Hi Sally , Suzi, and Louise! Sally I'm so happy that you are ok! Yes Sally get him to start taking the vitamins now it will take about 72 days to see a difference but don't give up hope ok.

This is for all of the ladies on this post and on the site e are here to support you no matter what. If you have any questions pls let us know. We also have wonderful dr's on this site and they are a blessing for us!!!! ***babydust*** to all

Thanks Angel, in the short time that I have been on this site, you have given some fab advice and are obviously highly respected amongst the other ladies. Pleased to hear that you have decided to stay!!!

Awwww thank you so much Suzi...I think all of these lovely ladies on this site as part of my family and if I could I would adopt every single one of them....lol!!!! Welcome to the site and if you need anything we are here for you...***babydust***

Hi guys.We found out my husband has lazy sperm.They are swimming in circles.The doctor says his new job will help with his sperm because hes not sitting down as often and hes getting more sleep.{hes a truck driver}He has to go back in 3 months to have another sample looked at to see how he is going.Ive also started him on MENEVIT.its a male version of ELEVIT.Its suppose to show effectivness in about 3 months.Now i just have to get him to remember to take it.Still depressed that im not pregnant again.Even though ive got one healthy child i still dont feel complete.