I'm a mother without a child

Wishing you the best in your TTC journey =)

Hopes - I wish you the best of luck! I do understand how you feel even though I have a child already. I just know I was meant to have more!

Thanks It just gets harder every day!! If one more person calls me to tell me that they are pregnant I'm going to go MAD!! 2 Different people called me to tell me 2 different friends of mine were pregnant.. Lets just put salt in the cut.. sigh .. I know it will happen. I just wish it wasnt so hard. Even as a child I knew I wanted kids. You spend your whole life trying to do it right, and wait for the right time just to find out that its not the easy..

Welcome! Hope you find the info you need here its a GREAT site :)

I skipped a baby shower today because I just can't go yet. It has been 3 months since my last miscarriage but it still hurts. I did buy baby clothes and will give them to her later. I didn't feel too bad because she works with my DD so she is technically not my friend.

Hi Hopes...I'm so happy you found this site and are sharing your journey with us. I really pray that your IUI works and that you'll soon post a much deserved BFP!!! Welcome to FT's :)))

@Lizsmum- I know. As I type this I am planning a baby shower for my sister-in-law. It is so HARD. She really didnt even want to have a kid and is still very "whatever" about her pregnancy. I makes me want to cry.. ( and I do )



Sorry about your m/c.. are you still trying?? I hope so..

@ Sar22222- Thanks i hope to take a test soon. this is the last month we are on our own..it would be so nice to get it this time.. i pray for BFP evey night!

This is a wonderful site with wonderful women on it. Welcome! I hope IUI works for you. We are here to support you and cheer you on. All my best to you and hope you get a BFP soon :)

Hang in there hun. It can happen and it WILL happen. It took me and my DH 3 years to get pregnant. My heart used to break at the sight of a baby, I couldn't go to baby showers and i cried every time another friend got pregnant.

I was on clomid for 3 months before it worked. I had an HSG done also. My DH semen analysis came back with a high count, but very decreased motility and abnormal morphology. I was so crushed when we got those results because the Dr said we may try IUI or other aggressive treatments in the next 2 months. I never stopped believing that it could still happen though. I ovulated for the first time EVER in my life off of 100 mg clomid and 10 days later I got my positive pregnancy test!!! Even with so many odds still against us, it happened with just some home remedies and the clomid. Even if it had taken some extra steps I know it would only have been a matter of time until it happened.

So don't get down hearted and don't give up! It will happen for you and the best thing you can do is believe.

Jenn- Thanks so much for your kind words.

My DH's S.A came back with a high count also, but very decreased motility and abnormal morphology too.

I "O" on day 12-15 every month ( I went out and got myself a $200.00 Fertility moniter) So as my DH says " he just cant get one past the goal".. So IUI is the only way to go I guess.

Did you have an IUI or did clomid just work for you?

Im 33 y/o and the Dr. said clomid wouldnt work for me. So shots it is!