I'd like everyone who's ttcing after miscarriage to join me!!

August 30, 2008

I decided to make a new thread, because I feel like everyone on my old thread is afraid to post about their pg...since I was the host and m/c'd. Well...I started thinking..and I think I should make a thread for women who have had m/c's whether only 1 m/c, recurrent m/c,whether they have no children, 1 child, or a few children already. I want us to support each other on our journey of ttcing to get a bfp after having a loss! I'm not sure when I'll get af...since my D&C was on 8/25/08, but I'm hoping that I'll be able to start ttcing again soon...& have the courage to...since I have recurrent m/c & other probs...if you wanna know more about my probs w/infertility just read my "about me" on my profile. Well I'm hoping I can help & talk to a lot of other women who are ttc after m/c...we all are miscarriage surviors...because even if it's an early loss...we all still lost our babies!!

August 31, 2008

Hi,

I would also like to join ye. I have had 4 miscarriages, one a few years back an then three since Dec07 the last one in May. I had tests done they all came back normal so i am trying again now i am currently cd16, 2dpo and hopefully i will be pregnant this month.

I hope everybody here gets to post their BFP's very soon.
Breezy_8
Rae

August 31, 2008

I would love to join. I miscarried at 16 weeks the first time and i just experienced a chemical preg. loss at 5 weeks last month. I hope we can all get STICKY BFPs reeeeeaaal soon!

September 01, 2008

I'm so sorry for all of your loses! I've had 4 m/cs too! I don't understand why god took our babies, I'm trying hard to keep faith, as I'm sure you all are. Eventualy we'll get a bfp again, be pg again & carry-full term! I wish it wasn't so hard to get & stay pregnant for me & the rest of us. It takes awhile for me to get pregnant & then my babies are taken from me before I even get to meet he/she. Knowing I'm not alone...that there are others out there like me who've experinced loss, helps. I only have about a 25% chance of concieving a baby w/o m/c the baby or w/o it having probs. Still I'm hoping that against the odds I will have a healhty baby! You all help so much in times like this, when there are days I just don't wanna get outta bed, I know there are others out there like me who've experinced loss of a baby/babies. I want to thank you all & help support you all through this! Sticky glue & baby dust to us all!!

September 01, 2008

I had a miscarriage at 7 weeks and am ttc again. Hope we all get our healthy babies very soon....very, very soon....

September 01, 2008

Same here Crystal. I told my boyfriend he took our son cause it was time for him to go home. I'm trying to conceive after a loss. Problem with incompetent cervix. I hope that it is all that is the problem. we have decided to try again after 6 week check up. My friend had a baby April 06 and may 06 found out she was pregnant. Let's see what happens. You all are in my prayers. BFP's and lots of baby dust to us all.
Hpim0105
DC9

September 01, 2008

I would also like to join you. I too have had multiple m/cs and a stillborn son (Emmanuel). I am praying for all of us that God will give us all children that will grow up to be good people. They can't all be President, or someone famous, but I know they will all be someone special!

Love, Prayers, and Baby dust all around!

September 01, 2008

Thanks for starting this thread! I had a m/c on July 21 (I think it was a chemical as I was only 5 weeks along - but I don't know the exact defn. of it). It was our first pregnancy and our first child. Dh and I were married last year and waited until timing was perfect - stupid us!!! So I finally got af after my miscarriage and am currently on cd11. So I am awaiting AF and we will try again this month. I am so so scared. I don't think we can go through another m/c. I honestly don't know how you women do it. You are far stronger than I. I pray to God we never have to find out.

I still cry often about it. We wanted this so so badly. Hopefully this will be our month!!!! We knew we were pregnant for only 4 days - just long enough to tell EVERYONE!!! Next time (which I really hope is soon) we are telling no one until we are in the delivery room (except the wonderful people here! You all will be the first I tell after DH!)

I am praying we get to start celebrating on this board instead of holding back tears. Here is to a lot of sticky bfp's in our very near futures!!! Cheers!!!

September 01, 2008

**OOPS! Sorry, I meant I was awaiting Ovulation!! NOT AF!! Stay away dumb AF!!!** - Just wanted to correct myself!

September 02, 2008

I posted this elsewhere too, but I didn't know where to post it. Here looks good!!

:( I have a question. I am not in the 2ww yet, but I thought I would be ovulating very soon. I am on cd12 currently - I think I usually ovulate around cd16. I have never used opk's before, but after my m/c in july, this is my first cycle being able to ttc again and I want to make sure I bd at the most opportune time. So my question is, I am using opk's and for the past 2 days my test line has been lighter than the control line - I know that is a negative, but I thought it would continue to get darker until its positive. Today it was nothing. No line at all:( What does that mean? Why would I have a light line the last two days and nothing today? Does that mean that I won't ovulate this cycle? After my M/C I am so worried.

September 02, 2008

Just try to relax holly...and keep using the opks. Sometimes the lines get darker and then lighter, but what matters is when it is as dark as or darker than the control (also, if the edge of the test line is as dark, this may be your positive, but test for any extra day). Also, use them around 10am or so...2nd urine of the day, i believe. Hopefully you will ovulate this cycle! I am really hoping for the same for me! ;)

Take care and stay strong! :)

September 03, 2008

Holly, baby answered ur question perfectly! I'm sorry Holly you prob didn't ovulate or maybe you just tested to late...you could've ovulated earlier than you thought if they were showing up @ all. Btw everyone I want you to know the appt I was suppose to have today for a follow-up/results of why I m/c was suppose to be yesterday apparently(due to an air-head receptionist who told me the 3rd, but entered in the 2nd in the computer!)...so now I have to wait for monday the 8th to have all this done now. Worse thing is I'm still bleeding & I'm worried I shouldn't be...I had my d&c on 8/25 & today's the 3rd so that's 9 days straight of bleeding. I don't know if I should worry or not about bleeding still...is this normal @ all? Has anyone bled for this long after d&c?!

September 03, 2008

I will really really love to join this group I just lost my baby boy on September 03 08 I was exactly 22 weeks when I gave birth to him I had Premature Rupture of the Membrane my Dr. had to induce labour due to the fact he was concern about infections I don´t know what to do where to start if I would be strong enough to try again after trying for 8 months and finally getting Preggo we was so excited.

September 03, 2008

I'm so sorry paula. Similar to my loss. 15 weeks rupture membrane and my little wonder came out. I know you will love this place. Every one is so supportive and loving. Welcome hun.

September 03, 2008

I just want this nightmare to be over:( I had my M/C on July 21st. I had a TON of cervical mucus last month starting about a 2 weeks after my m/c and lasting about 10 days. I always chart my cervical mucus to know when I ovulate because up until several months ago we charted that to AVOID getting pregnant. Once we were ready to have a baby, we knew when I was ovulating.

Well I am now on cd12 and I have NO cervical mucus. Looking back on my chart I have NEVER had no cervical mucus by cd12. I usually start out with the sticky stuff and get into the ewcm about 4-5 days later at ovulation. Now I have absolutely nothing:( I think I tend to ovulate around cd14, so I just don't know what is going on. What if I DON'T ovulate anymore after the miscarriage???? I just hate this!!!!!!

September 04, 2008

Thank you ashmcc and I´m sorry about your lost. it´s so hard when you lose your little angel
Breezy_8
Rae

September 04, 2008

I m/c at 16 weeks, blood clots in the placenta followed by premature rupture of membranes. Does anyone know why the membranes rupture early????

Paula- I too had to be induced and gave birth to a baby boy. I miscarried 5 months ago and his due date would have been next wed. I know what you are feeling. It is so agonizing, but it will get better. I tried for 7 straight months on fertility meds, when i finally got a BFP. I miscarried again at 5 weeks last month. Hopefully we can all have VERY HEALTHY PREGNANCIES AND BABIES VERY VERY SOON!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Baby dust!!!!

September 04, 2008

Rae I am sorry about your lost as well but I know of people who went thru the same thing and now have healthy babies so this is the only thing giving me a little hope now.

September 04, 2008

This will be a great end of the year. Sept- Dec nothing but baby dust to all of us soon to be mommies. In time this board will be so long with BFP's until recurrent will have to start another thread. So come on ladies let's get to conceiving. Our babies want to be born.

September 05, 2008

Hi....Again... I am so sorry I have so many questions.

Ok, So my m/c was July 21st. I got my normal AF on August 22nd. I am FINALLY getting some ewcm today. (cd15). I have been taking OPK's all week and they have all been negative. I haven't taken today's, but I am thinking it MIGHT be positive (I am hoping and praying anyway). So I am wondering, I know that an OPK shows positive the day before you ovulate, but would it show positive the day of as well?? Like when you are actually ovulating?? Just curious.

Thanks for everyone's patience, I have so many questions.

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