I am 37 and I have three kids, a 14,12, and a 5 year old. When I got pregnant with my two older kids I had no problems getting pregnant now with my 5 year old it took us a total of 5 years to concieve her. now I am wanting one more and we been off the pill for 3 1/2 years and been trying the whole three years. I myself am healthy do not smoke, nor do I drink. My husband is 46 and have high blood pressure controlled by prescribed medication. I want to know why it has taken so long to concieve this go around.