help!

It was gone all day yesterday, then poped back up last night, and this morning. No cramps either.

Chas would be best if you get your progesterone levels checked to actually know whats going on. Women do spot during early pregnancy. Also get a Beta done to see where you stand.

Hope I have called twice today and still nothing! My last beta was in the 80's. Still low but going up. This is a bunch of crap.

Wow Chas, all I can say is to be persistent with your doc. I hope you get some good news soon!!!!

I relly feel for you!

I would stand in their office until they gave me an answer! If there is anything I can do to help you sweetie just let me know! Get mean with them! Hold on lil peanut!!! Stickyglue!

Sar this is all bad! The nuse said that if this was a text book way of answering she would say this pregnancy will not last! I am heartbroken. I feel like shit. I am done with ttc and everything. This so wrong, good people get shit while others get everything so screw it all.

Chas hun I cannot believe the nurse would be so rude and insensitive. I know we keep telling you to hang in there.. but try to..its not over..

oh Chas..you got to hold on the possibility that miracles do happen. DOnt give up just yet. STICKY GLUE

omg Chas, I would not deal with that nurse anymore hun. I'm so sorry you were told that, it was very insensitive of her!! I know how unfair it all is when you know you're a good person and bad things happen for no reason. Please try to not lose the faith that you will have a beautiful baby! It's not over yet in my opinion. Hang in there, we're all here rooting for you and praying for you and that little bean! ((((((hugs))))))

Oh my goodness.

Any good nurse would have NEVER said anything like that.

She doesn't know what the future holds for you and your baby, she has NO CLUE!

Screw that nurse and get right to your doctor and if your doctor won't get back to you find another doctor.

Girl, you deserve to get some answers!

Sticky, sticky glue!!!!!!

Thats horrible and I am sorry you had such a horrible nurse...

LOTS of people spot in early pregnancy...So maybe everything will still be ok? try not to stress..Although i know that thats so hard to do.

Just call them and say I NEED answers NOW and I undertand it may not matter to you but this is my life..see what they have to say to that..

big hugs

chas- hang in there! my best friend is 6 weeks and spotting right now (for the last week) because of a subchronic hemmorage (or something like that...) and it depends on the case, but her doc said she is going to be FINE! just try to relax if you can...

chas what gives her the right to even say that?..when they havent done anything to help you! i would def look into getting a new doc. anyone pregnant and spotting should be told to come into the office for bloodwork or an ultrasound. my fertility doc told me before i ever became pregnant, he said "it will be hard for you to find an OB that actually appreciates what youve been through to get to this point(meaning finally becoming pregnant)". and he was so right bc when i was pregnant the first time i wanted this baby soooo bad and wanted things to be okay. but i kept spotting and cramping and i would call my new ob's office everytime i would spot or hurt. of course they would always tell me to come in for an ultrasound but the ob always would say "youre fine the baby's fine, we just need to send you home with an ultrasound machine." i was so ticked off when he told me that! bc i knew deep down that something was wrong with my pregnancy and i ended up miscarrying 3 weeks later (10 weeks pregnant) bc of a blood clot in the placenta. you need to go to a doc who will put you and your concerns first! i wish i was in AZ bc i would drive your butt there and MAKE them see you! :)

ewww...sorry so long! i didnt realize how much i was typing...i was in the zone!!lol

following hCG levels may be considered Ok to do...

I am so frustraited!! I was talking to a friend and she wounder if I implanted just last Sunday if my levels are where they need to be. She said that if I o late or implanted late then I might be where I need. I just don't understand what they saw in the u/s and if they think it was a sac then why do I keep hearing from others that you can only see a sac at 1,000 hcg? Both Dr.s that viewed the u/s think they saw a sac.... I just worry about it being ep, b/c of the spotting, and bbs still hurt

this could be true too. maybe you did ovulate later than you originally thought. and maybe if they both seen a sac than it wont be an ep. and hurting boobs is always a good sign. dont give up! keep praying about it and i will too!

Chas hang in there, ok! Go to your doc and demand that they speak to you and then once you get some answers tell them how you feel about their doctor/patient relationship...IT SUCKS!....then go find a new doc's office. One that cares about there patients. I really hope this turns into a miracle for you...maybe you did implant late...I have read alot of stories about women whose HCG started out really low and rose really slowly but the pregnancy was just fine. That nurse had no right to tell you that she thinks the pregnancy will not last....that office has no concept of the type of relationship they are supposed to have with their patients.

I hope this works out for you, hun!

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