Getting Husband Involved

This must be a common thing. I felt like I was going through this major event, and my partner seemed to treat it like it was not that big of a deal. I remember after 1 year of trying and 6 IUI's, my partner asked "now, what does IUI stand for?" I could not believe it! It seemed like I was talking to a brick wall sometime.

I guess because it is your body that this is happening to, you have to be very aware of what is going on. The other half does not have to worry about what medicine to take when, all the lingo, etc.

You may just have to sit him down and discuss your feeling with him. Tell him you need him to be supportive and part of him being supportive is learning about the process and what you will be going through.

Thank you, it's so nice to know I'm not alone in feeling this way. And thank you for the advice, I do need to sit him down and express how big a deal the process is. He's such a worry free person, I'm not sure how to get that "a-ha" moment out of him on this, but I'll try.

I agree you should talk to him and let him know how u feel. And let him know that you need his suport. And it would be much nicer if he got involved in what is happening because they will be your children as in both people involved.