CAN YOU GET PREGNANT 12 DAYS BEFORE YOUR AF IS DUE.

cutting it close but yes it usually 14 dbefore af

THANKS.

if you ovulate at that point then yes. Most ladies have a 14 day period inbetween ovulation and AF but my sister in law only has 12 days from O to AF. Are you using OPK's or checking your ovulation symptoms at all?

no chelsha ive gave up now ive got to the point as to if it happens it happens if it dont it dont im fed up with the 2 week wait its so stressing and its putting a lot of pressure on my hubby and me so were giving it a break for a while.

how are you

I've stopped using opks too. AND the tww is much easier to deal with as well.

I agree with ches - it's possible....

im with ya bebe! After all this trying it gets old and discouraging for sure!

Im just finished up bleeding from my last miscarriage and trying to get on life right now.

Wishing you luck this time around!!!

oh chelsha im so sorry to hear about your loss ive lost 2 both at 5 wks and had 2 chemicals its so heartbreaking when this happens you just loose faith for a while but i will try again ive got to try and with the help of babie asprin i dont have no cltting issues but my m/w said its recomended for recurrent losses so we will wait and see.

i wish you all the best in the future and will keep u posted with my out come.

We are gonna check for a clotting issue but i highly doubt it to be honest. i have 2 children from a previous marriage but that was 10 years ago. I O every month and have no issues as far as they can tell and my DH has a morph issue but we have had 2 IUI's and 2 IVF's so now we are gonna go thru the tests that they give you once you have had a few miscarriages to see whats up.

Thx babe, take care!!

oh ok chelsha they did that with me ive got 3 girls from a previous realationship and wen id lost the 2 babies givin our ages im 36 hubby is 40 they sent us for all kinds of tests karyotyping gentics all sorts swabs you name it i had it but thankfully they all come back normal sothey carnt find a reason as yet.thats why i have to try babie asprin when i do become preggo and if i loose another we have do more bloods for me on days 21 an 14 and another pelvic scan which was normal before not long ago and hubbys sperm checked hubby has no children of his own but the nurse sais he can get u preggo but its not staying holding for some reason so we will have to wait an see its a shame we have to go through loosing our babies before we get anything done about it really nowadays they should check all this before you try an concive an if theres a problem it can be sorted there and then.i dont know what you think.

best of luck chelsha.x

great info - thx so much. Im sorry you had to go thru all of that - its a rough road!

I am now wondering if its not my eggs that are bad that its the sperm thats acrually fertilizing the eggs that is the issue. We went thru IVF and the fertilized eggs always had lots of fragments which i assumed was my issue but I have kids and he doesnt so maybe his sperm are not so good.

We had the SA done and all they said was his morphology sucked.

yeah chelsha it could be i was wondering that myself with my hubby we wont no till we go for the sperm test if we do have to do that im praying that will will have another go at bd next month im so tired of worrying and wondering if we will make it next time were so scared to try but no we have to were not getting any younger im 36 and hubby is 40 .you no you said that your hubbys serm sucked what are they doing about it???

they are doing nothing about his sperm - he has a morphology issue and they say there is nothing they can do about it which is why i took the injections to make more eggs and do the IUI's. We had no sucess with that but got preggo on our own and m/c. They can see no reasons for the m/c's.

I am making my DH take a multi-vitamin and he will begin to take fertile aid again in about a week. he hates that stuff, makes him sick to him stomach.

I wasnt scared to try again after the m/c cuz i really thoght it was a fluke since i have 2 kids and no issues they can find. But with this 2nd m/c i am very afraid to try and become preggo again! I know what you are sayin~

yeah i no what your saying its a shame i no the feeling about trying again were scared to but ask consultant about babie asprin even though they carnt find a course for my misscarriges my consultant has put me on babie asprin wen i do become pregnant and we have yet to see if this works for us.

but what i carnt understand is why they havent checked you for all the things they checked me for or perhapes they will now you have had your 2nd misscarriage.why we have to loose so manyto get these tests done is beyonde me.

chelsha try not to be afraid to try again it will happen for all of us sometime. as they say timings got to be right.

good luck and let me no how your getting on x

It depends on when you ovulate, if you ovulate 12d b4 af then yes, an average woman ovulates 14 days b4 O but I have 17 days so everyone is unique.

im going in 2nite to talk to the RE and have some blood sucked out of us for testing. I would assume that we will have results in a week or 2.

Looking forward to knowing whats going on thats for sure!!

yeah for sure it took about 4 months to get our results back but we did have loads of tests done where abouts do youlive chelsha i live in england and proberly things take longer to get sorted over here. hope everything goes well for you and keep me updated.x.

RE said that it will take about 3 weeks to get it back but if it comes back early then he will call us. I also had a thyroid test, Glucose and a bunch of other ones. Oh, and that blood clotting test too.

I live in the state of Wisconsin.

yeah i had all those done to they all came back normal but in some way you wish for that little something to be wrong so it can be easly treated and you become preggo and everything is good but wishful thinking it dosent always work like that.

i hope you get sorted soon keep me posted all the best.