can the doctor answer this? please...

I think we have already answered this questions..... I would say Man #2

I am gonna say man#2 going on the fact that there was no ejaculation from man #1. But it's hard to say if you don't know when you ovulated.

i know when i ovulated. it was wednesday (100 % sure) about it.

Most likely #2 like everyone says given no ejaculation and the length of time Friday was to Wednesday ovulation...

i hope you are correct. thank you for your advice. do you know anything about the non invasive paternity testing? you can do at 12 weeks from the mothers blood?

Let's wait and see if a pregnancy occurs...you have little to fear with the info you've provided...

the thing is, i AM pregnant. i am crossing my fingers it is man #2. man #2 was perfect timing to get pregnant. the day of the LH surge and the day after.

Casey- is man # 1 did not ejaculate into you..doubtful he is the father... however the only way to know is to do DNA testing

Do either of them know you are pregnant?

When did you find out you were pregnant? Did you use an HPT or have a blood test done?

And by ovulation on Wednesday, did you mean Wednesday of last week, as in May 7?

no, ovulation was last month. i found out through urine, then blood confirmation.

it seems like man #2 would win out, but i am having anxiety attacks over this. i am sure that it cant be good for my fetus to feel this way all of the time. do you all think i can confidentially speak to my obgyn about this? im scared she would tell.

Casey, your doctor will NOT tell anyone as she/he is bound by a confidentiality agreement b/t herself and you. She is not allowed to discuss ANY of your medical issues w/ ANYONE unless you specify she can. I would never worry about that when talking to your dr.

you should also ask her how you can do a dna test on the baby if this is really causing you so much anxiety, that is if you want to know for sure.

Good luck.

i really want to know for sure. it was just a terrible mistake and i am praying it is man #2.

i have a feeling it is, but i guess i wont know until i take a test. i dont want to do an amnio or something to put the baby at risk though.

I wouldn't worry. I would put money on man#2 if I was a betting girl. Just try to relax.

thanks lauraM. i hope you are correct. i have an ob appt. in two weeks, so i may ask her then.

i moved my appointment up with my OB for tuesday morning to talk to her.

im trying to relax for the babys sake, but its not working!

I think it would be highly unlikely that Man #1 could have fathered the child. I would bank on Man #2 but like the ladies said only a test will tell!

I have been reading more online about "precum" or the possible fluid that leaks out. can this really cause a pregnancy if the man was just in and out?

Casey... i have heard that u can get preggo from precum. IM not actually sure if that is true but I would think that is possiable since there would be sperm in the precum.

im sure it is possible. i just need to know how likely 5 days prior to ovulation. i made the biggest mistake ever and hopefully my ob can help me with testing on tuesday.

Casey.. IF u had sex with man #1 and then the next day man # 2 then it could be either since u can get preggo from Precum.

Lets just hope that it is man #2. Hope all goes well at the doc appt.

I still say #2. If there was any "precum" from man #1 then the odds that "it" lived for 5 days is extremely low. I know sperm can live for 3-5 days on average but most doctors will tell you that sperm live 72 hours or less on average. Man#2 is the father.

I have read many things about precum, I am not 100% sure what to believe, but I have read that precum DOESN'T contain sperm, but if a man has masturbated or had sex, that sperm could be in his penis from ejaculating earlier, and would come out in his precum. I have also read that if a man, pees before having sex again, that he has cleaned his pipes....And there should not be any sperm in him, unless he ejaculates again. But I am not 100% sure, just something I have read, but it does make since.....

I would bet you are pregnant from man #2!