birth control

Hey Ashlee, Im sorry but uve asked this question so many times and everyone has responded including Dr. If u can give more details as to what exactly u want to know, ppl can provide some advise.

i know i keep asking. its beacuse its my only way to get pregnant. my dh does not want a baby okay. and i do. desparatly. i feel like i always think about it. i know i sould repetitive, but i cant help it. if you dont feel like responding than dont.

sorry if that bothers you. i didnt want to go into detail because it makes me look stupid infront of all these people.

ashLEY...

forgive me if i am wrong be i believe that ashley is talking about a sneek pregnancy....and im not even sure there is a % on the withdrawer getting someone pregnant just that its possible....even pre cum has sperm in it and men cant tell when that is coming out.. so i hope in a way that helps but i still must ask you to think about what an unexpected child could do to the relationship if hes not wanting one and voicing that....

how is that sneeky? he knows what could happen by using the withdrawal method.im not doing anything behind his back. he just doesnt want one until he is 30. it sounds like you are judging me a little.

Its just confusing coz u say u wanna get preggo in one post and then ask abt withdrwal method and leep procedure in another post. Ur other post this morning said u are not TTC. So, I was just confused as to what u are looking for.

We all come here for help and giving details will only benefit u so that everyone can understand what exactly u want and help u out and No it wont make u look stupid coz we all have stupid questions here

Anyways. Good luck to u.

i just have a hope that it will make me pregnant. dont you ever feel like you were meant to be a mom?

okay let me break this down. i had a leap. got off pill. use withdrawal. were not ttc, but i still want to fall pregnant. ever sense i got off pill a baby has been on the brain. he wants to wait. me im sorry to say, want one now. if u r confused think about how i feel . i dont know why i feel this way. and i ask about withdrawal because statistics say i should have been by now. now i really feel stupid. i didnt want anyone to ever know how i really feel about this. i was just wanting some advice/answers.

ok maybe sneek was the wrong word to use and yes he knows the risk of sex without protection....but then that still leves us with no exct question to answer...and judge ppl is something that i dont do , so in no means was i try to , it was just a figure of speech that we use around here...

and my feelings are not sneeky, its just how i feel. nor would i EVER do anything disceptive to the man that i love. i will just have to wait.

and i am sure that all of us here feel that we are meant to be moms or we wouldnt be here....so your not alone with your feelings.....sorry if i in any way offended you

im sorry that i said "judge" but i feel a little exposed right now... and my only questions are the ones that ive already asked back on the post section. maybe im just.. i dont know. upset. upset because ive never wanted anything more. and its really tough to be on a different page than your dh

and hopeN... i hope you read everything else i wrote so maybe you can better understand me and where i am coming from.

i agree it is very tough...and yes here there is alot of exposer and its a leap of faith to trust someone with your deepest desirers....and i am sure that at one time or another we have all felt like that, im 32 years old and just had to ask someone when i should start counting with my new cycle...i didnt want to but to gain the answers and the correct one the questions have to be asked clearly so that there is no confusion...

i chart alot if you need some help...

ty, i think i got that covered fornow my cycle got messed up but i will be sure to ask in the future if i get lost again

my guy doesnt even know i feel this way. he knows that i want a child. or that its at least on my mind. he has no idea my secret hope of maybe becoming pregnant. i just wanted to talk to someome that didnt know me so i could ask all the questions i wanted that im embarrassed to ask those who iknow.. im sorry that i got so offended.

i guess i ask the same question because im worried that i cant get pregnant because of leap.so i always want to know what kind of chance i have

i was just wondering.. could you tell me a little more about your son?

leap?

what would you like to know

oh yeah. well i had pre cancerous cells in my cervix. i had a leap procedure which is where they surgicly remove those cells. that can leave scar tissue and could possibly make it harder to concieve.

about his syndrome

i can tell you that my sister inlaw had the same thing done and had a beautiful little girl after and sadly concieved again but was a tubel and ruptured... but it is possible... but you can goggle , pregnancy after leap and it should give a % rate there if that would be more help full