AM or PM BD?

bump does anyone have any suggestions?

Hope...It doesnt matter if it is in the AM or PM when u BD. It matters on when u will be O'ing. Some say that men are more fertile in the morning but this has not been proven.

Just as long as u BD when ur O'ing and a few days be4 u O and the few days after u O then u should be covered.

Best of luck and babydust!!!

thanks katie, it is good to hear from you, how are things going? i am on cd 14 last month i Od on cd 15-16 it was a toss up on what day was darker, but any way i got a +opk so we have been bding everyother day for the last couple of days and we bd this am so i really hope i O soon, if i get a +opk we will bd as soon as we can, he has to go to work tonight and work the next couple of nights so i am really hoping that we will be able to catch it this month i have been standing on my head lol so i really hope so. dh has been having trouble with his back so he has to take pain meds before we bd, but he has been really good about doing bless his heart.

how are you doing? are you ready for the ivf cycle? good luck i am praying for you. thanks for all your help.

Hope.. YW hun and glad I was able to help. I can tell u that standing on ur head will not help and can cause damage to ur uterus so if u really are doing that then plz dont. It can flip ur uterus.

So sorry to hear about ur DH's back. I feel him on that one. I have a very bad back myself. I hope that he gets to feeling better soon.

As long as ur BDing every other day then u will be fine =) If u can BD at least the nite of the + OPK and next night then that would be alot better also.

I have started my IVF journey. I dont have the link but if it is called Katie's 1st IVF and hopefully the only one. U can read about it if u get a min.

WIshing u all the best and loads of babydust!!

thanks katie, no not really standing on my head just putting 2 little couch like pillows under my but when we are done, and i try laying there for a little bit like 30-45 min but i always have to get up and go get the kid ready for school, lol

i will do my best since dh goes to work at 1130 at night that will give me a chance to bd with him before he goes to work, we only get to bd with us on our sides and so i try and get to my back as soon as possible, i really hope it works, i don't know how much more dh can take, lol he has 3 disks that are out and it is the ejaculation that hurts him so he just does not like to bd like most men, but he wants a baby to so he is trying his best.

and yes i will most deffinatly go look and read that posting.

Hope.. Oh ok. LOL! I thought that u were serious. LOL!

On ur side is fine hun just as long as u are laying for alittle while after to get them things up there. It really hasnt been proven that u need to lay down after but we just say that its best bc once they are in there they will stay up there except for the extra amount that comes out but shot who wants to waste any right?? LMAO!

Wow ur DH is a trooper. 3 disks messed up and he is still BDing. WOOHOO! He really must want one for sure. That is great tho.

Wishing u all of the best hun =)

one other thing katie, how important is it that me on the female side of the whole thing actually orgasum,,,(sorry spelling is really bad) i never get there when we do anything cause i am just worried about when he will be done, i know that sounds bad, but we don't bd like we use to but it has started to be like a job and we have only been married since april and trying since last december so i hate to complain since i know you have been trying much longer then that.

Hope.. It is not neccessary for u to have a orgasium before or even after he has.Ppl say that it is good for u to have a orgasium after ur DH's has ejactulated but there are no studies done to show if it actually helps out or not.

With u being just recently married hun it is not good that ur already feeling like it is a job. I know that it is hard to deal with and that u want it so badly but I would try not to make it a job. If putting stress on a man can hender him.If u understand what Im saying. Im not saying that is what ur doing but maybe instead of telling if that u O'ing just dont say anything at all.

IDK.. Just a few ideas and suggestions thats all.

thanks so much katie, if i don't tell him i am Oing then we don't bd but maybe 2-4 times a month, unless i really push, i enjoy making love and i crave him so i try for it as much as possible, but i do understand what you mean and i wil work on it so that it does not get like a job, so thanks again. and good luck

Our Re always recommended morning sex. Because he felt that most people our tired in the evening and not in a relaxed state. We got pregnant both times doing morning sex.