After 4 heartbreaking miscarriages I am now blessed with TWINS!!!!

Thanks Jenn and GA!! I am super excited!! I just can't wait to get my next u/s!!! LOL

Jenn, yes there is reason for you to be on here! You are a wonderful support/friend to many of us! (((hugs)))

Very well said Sarah hun! You are a great support Jenn... I miss seeing you on here

Chrissy, no BDing since last Thursday so I am sure it was a bust. Wasted Clomid and horrible s/e. Gotta love the man. NOT!!!!

i can relate lizsmum. there has been times throughout the past 5 years that my husband hasnt wanted to and it really hurt me. it makes me feel horrible when i have to talk him into it. he says that it feels like a job anymore. this whole trying to concieve thing is really hurting our sex life. i just cant wait until i can just have sex when i feel like it, not when i am supposed to. it really sucks!!! he tried to say no this past week when i was on clomid. he said he was tired and had a headache. i understood he didn't feel well, but i just thought he could suck it up since i was on clomid. he did, but i just felt horrible about it. it really hurt me and i cried after we bded. hang in there girl!!! its a rough road all the way around.

hi there... congrates... im new here (& beginning to try for baby)... hope i will be lucky to have twins too...

Alex - I know all too well about the crying and begging. If we take the Clomid and prepare, then the least they can do is show up for the main act. Even if it has to be several days.

Funny...Men seem to want it more on their terms, not ours. Sux when you're ttc and especially when you're taking meds to help too. Good luck girls!

((((hugs))))

Why dont you let him think your taking a month off & just try to hit the day b4 you ovulate & the day of. You kinda keep him at a distnace for a week or so, then be sexy & seductive. He will think you have taken a break, it would be good for his mind! lol

Sadly, he can maintain his own distance until I say something. I actually told him he had better get onboard or think seriously about how he wants to raise some other man's child.

Mrs - I don't tell him when I am Oing anymore. When I did he had performance problems. He would not ejaculate. I think this is because of our previous miscarriages together and he is afraid of another one. I don't blame him one bit. I am terrified of getting pregnant and having another one. But what can you do but keep trying?