11 w, 3 days question

August 11, 2008

Hi ladies and Dr. Q,

I know I have innundated you with so many of my worries. I know you all understand and that is why I keep relying on your support and advice. I am driving my husband and parents mad with my paranoia! My problem is that I have had regular ultrasounds since week 7 (one per week)and I find that the u/s's reassure me for a few days and then I find something else to panic about within a few days. My previous loss of a twin 2 years ago has really affected my ability to truly enjoy this pregnancy this time around. It really stinks!

I am now 11w, 3 days and I truly feel that my symptoms have disappeared. I had an u/s at 10 w, 2 days and things were fine. However, since then, I have needed to pee less and I am not as tired. The other weird thing is that the blue veins in my breasts have become lighter and so this has me worried as I am assuming that the pregnancy has possibly terminated without the bleeding etc...I went to a walk in clinic on Saturday when I was 11w, 1 day to see if they could hear the heartbeat and it took the dr a few minutes to find it and once she did we only heard it for a few seconds before it disappeared. She tried finding it again and she couldn't. Given that I have seen the heartbeat 4 times, I know statistically I shouldn't worry a whole lot but I still am petrified. Can stress and worry cause a miscarriage? If anyone out there can offer some advice, I'm all ears. PLease be honest! Thanks so much....

August 12, 2008

Hey Kristin.............please don't stress. This isn't good for your little one. But I'm sure all is fine, especially with hearing the hb only a few days ago and seeing your little bean a week ago. Hearing the hb and then it going it normal. At 12 weeks they could barely find mine and it took them 15min! I was freaking. But the doc said it is just b/c of how tiny the little one is. I understand how nervous you are b/c of your previous loss. But it really seems like this one is here to stay. You are so close to your 2nd tri!!! Only 1 more week. Hopefully then you can take the time and relax and fully enjoy this wonderful experience. Take care and hugs to you! Please keep us posted with everything!!

August 12, 2008

Kristin, I am 11 weeks, too. My symptoms seem to be leaving as well. I have weekly US and everything seems to be going great. I've had 2 early mc's so I totally understand your fears. My re explained that by this time your symptoms will start to disapear....the 2nd trimester is supposed to be a time of enjoyment before new 3rd trimester symptoms reappear. Remember about this time your baby is the size of a plumb and to find a HB with a doppler is extrememly tricky. I it is a good thing that you are starting to feel better...enjoy it before the other symptoms kick in.....good luck!!1

August 14, 2008

Thanks Fran! I went to see my regular family doctor on Tuesday and she found the heratbeat no problem! I am really trying to relax now. I have an appointment with the psychologist at the Fertility Centre where I live to discuss my fears. Hopefully this will allow me to enjoy the rest of this pregnancy! Thanks so much for your support.

August 14, 2008

Thanks, Jessica for your care and support. Had a visit with my family doctor on Tuesday and she heard the heartbeat no problem. I am going to deal with my fears by seeing the psychologist from our fertility Centre tomorrow. hopefully this will help. Thanks for sharing your info. It really helped.
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August 14, 2008

Kristin, I am glad that everything is going well!!

August 14, 2008

Kristin,

I know what you mean about having reassurance and then a few days (for me it's about 2 weeks) later panic sets in again! It's hard to get a previous loss out of one's mind- especially when that is the only experience they have with pregnancy.

I am sure everything is fine. Symptoms do start gradually decreasing when you get closer to entereing the 2nd trimester. I know mine did :) I am now almost 18 weeks- and I have been trying really really hard to not panic- even though at times it's impossible! But so far I have been able to FORCE myself into calming down.

I hope everything continues to go great for you!